when i was with my last boyfriend he told me he didnt want to do anything with me because he felt i was too young at the time i was 15 and he was 17, anyway his friend told me even if he said he didnt want to do anything he would be tempted, eventually we ended up going further and doing everything but all the way, he didnt want to sleep with me but he often did things like prodding my leg with his c***, and things like asking me to sit up and down on it when i was fully clothed..lol he said he was against sleeping with me but im not sure why he was doing things like that to hint it? i was just curious!
2007-09-23 08:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you are under the legal age for sex and he did'nt want to go to jail.
2007-09-23 08:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dooby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that I don't think has been mentioned is that he might be rather scared of the real thing, especially if he's not been there before. I know there's the theory that all guys are built as sex-machines, but quite often we aren't that confident about it. There's also the basic question of "how do you do it" which no one really answers.
Also it can be fun just to similate something - kindof like rollplaying I guess, or dressing up sexily but knowing that it ain't actually going to happen. In this case there's also the age issue which is a pretty big deal.
2007-09-23 15:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one may be that he did not want to get involved with the law as he understood or misunderstood it.
The other may be that often people are more interesting in the activity and excitement leading up to the final event than with the final event itself. Of course, he probably does not know that you are in a rush to prove your female nature, because the final final event is pregnancy, and he may be responsible enough to avoid that, but I doubt it is in his thinking. Maybe you should discuss the event of pregnancy before you engage in intercourse. It will change your life forever, even if you abort. These are the hard facts to go along with what you are feeling now.
2007-09-23 15:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Juicy (I'm sure he'd have loved the name) ...I've been tempted and wanted to follow my primal urges and yet ~ felt afraid that going 'too far' would be 'too far' - with any additional responsibility it might bring onto my head should things get awkward / nasty for me / us.
Wanting to and yet not doing so is no bad thing ...for reasons I really cannot be bothered explaining to you ....beyond saying there is an 'excitement' in such behaviours which is good for the cardiology system, at least.
Sash.
2007-09-23 15:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos he is a young man - they're all like that.
Hats off to him, he was very restrained I think. Its not illegal to mess around with your clothes on, so he was happy with that.
You had a good man there, very respectful.
2007-09-23 15:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
crikey another sex freak ..i can spot them a mile away
2007-09-23 15:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jezabel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋