so i my boyfriend and i have been together for lyk 2 and 1/2 weeks now, but when he kisses me i feel disgusted and sick, lyk its wrong, but when i kissed my friend rachyl i loved it, it felt right.
i dont know how to tell him that i think imma lez.
hes a conservative republican so i know he is gonna act weird.
what do i say?!?!
2007-09-23 07:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by blair 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
2.5 weeks isnt very long. if youre not attracted to him just get it over with so you can both be in happy relationships quicker
2007-09-23 08:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by lazy shoe 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if this is a 2 1/2 week relationship, you don't need to share your personal preferences if you don't want!! You can simply tell him, you don't feel the same. or you don't feel nothing for him and that you want to break up. As simple as that! You don't have to tell him about smth that private and then get hurt by all the bad things he may say to offend you!!! If it was your mum who doubted about you, then, you shoud be that sincere! but with a 2 1/2 week bf, come on!!!! if it was a serious reltonship and you wanted to share that part of you with someone who you're never gonna be with again then that's another thing. Besides, if it's "I think i'ma lesbian" You're not sure YET! So give your self time, and explore your sexuality, preferences and live free... you don't need a tag to say "im a lesbian" you need to find out what you like and what you don't before you can say that!!! My advice... Know yourself better before you can say, i'm this or that! and... feel free to keep what you don,t want to share with no one or say what you want eople to know... it's all u to you...
2007-09-23 08:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have only been together 2 1/2 weeks why tell him anything. just explain that ur not comfortable with this relationship and u would like to be just friends, telling him u think ur a lesbian could give him a personal confict that maybe hes not got what it takes and although he might not for u he will for someone else. there someone for every one, sometimes it just takes some time to find them.
2007-09-23 08:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by babyzodi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, sounds like you don't really have any feelings for him anyways, so why waste anymore time on him?? I would say, talk to your girlfriend and find out what feelings may be there between you two. Explore and you might discover something awesome! ;-)
2007-09-24 00:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by spygyrl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him that. Just break up with him. Is this the only reason that you think that you are a lesbian? If it is then it is just the wrong boy.
2007-09-23 08:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are not gay it atleast sounds like you dont love him so dump him but dont make it a gay thing. U dont love him and thats it. Then go make out with your friend some more!
2007-09-23 16:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say whatever feels right. This decision is about you, not about him. If he's upset over it or doesn't wish to be in contact with you anymore, then forget about him. Boys are gross anyway.
2007-09-23 08:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dinah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad at me, but because you already have a boyfriend, I think he'd be more then happy to accept you as a lesbian. Just tell him, he will be happy
2007-09-23 08:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to be easy. But whenever you decide to tell him be prepared to be called all kinds of names and the verbal abuse is crazy too.
2007-09-23 08:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by eveyjay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u guys havent even been goin out for that long...lol..who cares..just say its not gona work out..u dont have to give him a reason why...2 and a half weeks is nothing...:)
2007-09-23 08:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋