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i'm almost 22. i used to go to a dance studio then i quit for college. i was thinking about going back to dancing as another hobby. or trying for some volunteer work at the hospital. i need something else to occupy myself.

2007-09-23 06:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Games & Recreation Hobbies & Crafts

i have a boyfriend but he has me on his back burner.

2007-09-23 06:52:27 · update #1

8 answers

first, ask yourself the question, what do you really want to do? that is the only way you are going to find out how to fill your time. are you passionate about dancing? if yes, then go back to it. volunteering is a great way to explore your options and it may help you discover your career choice as well. depending on which area in the hospital you volunteer in, you may find that you may or may not like it. do you really have that much time to fill that you are finding a hard time making a decision on what to do? and about your boyfriend...maybe he feels like venturing out or maybe he feels like he doesn't have what it takes to fill your time. do some soul searching. develop other friendships with guys, platonic or course. really venture out and meet other people. take a class in something you think you might be interested in. look into your community's adult education programs or even your library. you will learn something new and meet new people. take it easy. life can be fun it you just chill out, so to speak. plan a day trip to a city that is not too far away, do some sightseeing. focus on yourself and what you really want. check into a hotel and maybe invite a couple of your girlfriends for a brainstorming session. take a notebook and keep it by the bed. when you wake from sleep, whether it be in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning, record the details of your dreams. often they can lead you to your success story...take time for yourself and i wish you the best!

2007-09-23 07:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by thecatmama 3 · 0 0

Try coin collecting. It doesn't have to cost you a lot. You can go to the bank and pick of a box of coin (whichever denomination you like) for exactly face value. A box of pennies is $25, a box of nickels is $100, a box of dimes is $250 and boxes of quarters or half dollars are $500. You don't have to buy the whole box. The bank can pull out whatever amount you like.

Once you get a box, you can go through and pull out the better coins (there are books to help with this or websites). You can pick up a coin album and try to fill all the holes (get one for each year) or just search for interesting ones.

The coins that you don't want can be returned to the bank and put straight back into your account (though it's often better to return the coins to a different bank (not just a different branch but a different bank) so that you don't search the same coins over and over). Everything you find will have been obtained at face value. You'd be surprised what people have found. Check out these links to see:
http://www.coincommunity.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=1902&whichpage=1
http://www.coincommunity.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=11494&whichpage=1
http://www.foundinrolls.com/

Also check your change for interesting finds.

Some things to search for: wheat pennies, silver dimes, silver quarters, old coins, error coins, coins with the "S" mintmark - it could be a proof coin etc. There's always the chance that you could find a real treasure!

It's also helpful to buy a red book. It can help you price your coins and will answer many of the questions you may have.

OR IF THAT'S NOT FOR YOU...

http://www.spacefem.com/quizzes/hobby/

2007-09-23 12:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Do both. Volunteer at a dance studio. Volunteer to teach dance at a community center. It is a win win situation!!

2007-09-23 07:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 4 · 0 0

well, first of all ;shame on you for letting your
boyfriend keep you on the back burner, seems to me its time to turn off the oven
and put you first. i don't see why you can't do both dance and volunteer

2007-09-23 07:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by bbjzmc 3 · 1 0

This question is under hobbies and crafts so maybe you should make something like jewelry or something crafty and start a business. It can be really fun.

2007-09-23 06:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mindy 3 · 0 0

Definitely, do both. It beats sitting home waiting for some schmuck who doesn't even have time for you.

If you're busy, a good man will want you because then you won't be as needy.
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2007-09-23 07:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kacky 7 · 1 0

Dancing, good fitness and it's something for you!

2007-09-23 07:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by dolly c 2 · 0 0

Get a job, and be an adult who pays for their own upkeep?

2007-09-23 06:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cysteine 6 · 0 0

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