i broke up with my bf a few months ago because i heard he cheated but i had no way of knowing if he really did. so , i broke up with him for about a week and then got back because, even if he did cheat i still forgave him. When i spoke to him that week he said that my other friend had introduced him to a girl he knew so that he could go out with her (but they didn't). this new girl and my bf talked and became very close friends. she's a very nice girl, but i just don't like him talking to her. (especailly not at 11 at night!) she likes him and a few other boys, which really ******** ticks me off.
i find myself getting really jealous of her because she's pretty and also very nice. I could of prevented this if i would of just kept my mouth shut. i cant take this any more!lol what should i do?
2007-09-23 06:11:04 · 3 answers · asked by ipodlady231 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
ya mutha. lol
that's what's important in my life these days. i'm a teen
2007-09-23 06:18:18 · update #1
Dump the cheating bastard and move on. Back on the farm they have a saying "Egg sucking dog". It refers to a dog that has kill a farm animal and tasted fresh blood. They will continue to do so because they crave the taste of fresh blood and fresh meat. You bf has become an "egg sucking dog".
2007-09-23 06:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by RUDOLPH M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is break up with your BF, not because he did anything wrong but because you should stay away from all people (except family) until you are mature enough to understand what a relationship is and how you handle one.
Good relationships are built on trust, a concept foreign to you. A mature person doesn't break up with a BF because they HEARD he did something from some 'friend' whose motives may be suspect. Mature people would give him the benefit of the doubt and check things out. A mature person doesn't go back either after one week with no good reason. And finally, a mature person doesn't get her underwear in a knot with every bimbo who comes by batting her eyes at him.
Obviously, the proble isn't him ans what he does, it's YOU.
I would wait for my next relationship to come along, I wouldn't force anything and in the meantime, I would get a handle on my own feelings and thoughts to learn what you are really about and what's important to you.
From your entry, you sound like you're 12 but I realize that, not really knowing you, I may have overstated my estimate.
2007-09-23 13:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to deal with your jealousy issues, or its going to ruin whatever relationship you are in.
seek counselling, or a clergyperson.
2007-09-23 13:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋