I am soon going to be 14 and i havent started my period yet. its worrying me because all my friends talk about it but i cant because i havent started. i ant tlk to my mum because shes dead and deffinetly not my dad. TO EMBARRISING! also i thought about when i want to have a baby is around 17 ok?
2007-09-23 00:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You're totally normal. Don't worry about not having started your period. And I hope you wait until you are at least 20 to have a baby. You need to live a little first before you have all those obligations and responsibilities.
2007-09-23 00:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by sci55 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to school , get an education ,, get a job ,, establish yourself , get married ,, then decide on having a baby .. 14 Wait too young , you have the whole world to check out .. 17 NO ! finish school , go to the proms , graduate , go to college . you can't do all that with a kid stuck under your arm . you can't war a bikini with stretchmarks and sagging boobs . Plus , there are men that do not want to raise someone Else's kid , and maybe the one you fall in love with could be that man . and don't think , that it's a package deal , men don't care they will leave . Also last but not least , why would ou put your child into a setting like that . you are young you own nothing and you have nothing to give her/ him . there I said my piece , I hope you listened . This is what I told my daughters and they turned out fine .. God Bless little one . Think what you will be doing to lives !
2007-09-26 23:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by vpsinbad50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your period will come soon, probably in the next year. 17 is too young for a baby, finish your schooling, go to college, or at least get settled into a job and housing. You don't even know what man you may or may not be with at 17- it is only fair to the baby to do your best to choose a good stable Daddy- and at 17, that's pretty impossible to do. Why not hope for one in your early/mid twenties if you like?
2007-09-23 00:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by magy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i didn't get a period until i was 16, but as for when you want to have a baby, why would you want to have one at 17? go to college and have some fun!! enjoy being young and happily selfish! once you have a baby a good mom has to think totally about her baby and very little about herself, good after 25 not so good before 20 lol. enjoy being young, its the most carefree time of your life you have so many choices. even if you don't have the grades for a four year college there are many 2 year colleges that are just as fun, cheaper AND some accept all as long as you have a high school diploma! wait until at least 25 to have a baby :) trust me, i love my daughter to BITS but i'm very glad I waited until 26 to have her. In order to teach your baby about life it helps to have lived one a little :)
2007-09-23 01:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by jenisilly80 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about that girl your to young to worry about that. It just it because your still not fully developed. Some women they turn 16 when they have started to have a period like my sister. It is normal for you don't have yet. But if be scared if you turn 17 or at the middle of 16 you still have'nt have I think you need to consult to a doctor.
2007-09-23 00:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you excercise too much, if you are underweight or are overweight, may stop you having your period, but if you are healthy : feel lucky you dont have it just yet because it isnt any fun when it does start every month........... babies at 17? no no no, i am 21, my bub is 6mths, i wish i could have waited a few years, these days 31 is the medium age for 1st bub, people just treat you like you are trash when you are a young mum, time really flies once you leave school, so just give yourself a change to have a life first!!wait till your at least 25 please?!
2007-09-23 00:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by ozzi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi dont worry it is normal and your day will come to get it .
and im about to be a teen mum i'm 19 tho and im in a commited reilationship with the father and we are to be married. i dont think you should try to have a baby this early my bff had here first at 15 and struggled alot and she has just ahd her second and she is a single mum but it is hard enough doin it with a dad in the childs but alone it gets much harder please reconcider
2007-09-23 00:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by conhol1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get ur period first, grow up, and then get pregnant,
But 17, why u thinking already about it?
2007-09-23 02:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋