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2007-09-22 22:43:42 · 8 answers · asked by alexisvisjnic 1 in Social Science Psychology

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Let's say I am. Not too happy, but happy, in a way. I think I could have done some things, I could have pushed myself a little harder and there are some things I wish I haven't done. All my problems I used to have seem so small from my current place, I wish I knew this back then. I try to find happiness even in the little things...

2007-09-22 23:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by love123 2 · 0 0

You could say that my life is half over or maybe two thirds if you go by the life expediences they write about. You ask am I happy of course I am. I have lived, I have loved, and I have lost. all the things we were put here to do.. The others write they were not and they had problems . I say POOR THINGS life has these things in it and we are to learn how to deal with the things that life has to give bad or good. Once we die what is the diff any way. only the ones that grow with you will remember any way So Life is happy I LOVE THIS PLACE AND THIS LIFE HAPPY I BE

I am add this that dumby D_r_iva wrote a book but never said if he was happy read the QQQQQ you dumb SH*T

2007-09-22 23:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by nad32h 3 · 0 0

Happiness is an agreeable feeling or condition arising
from good fortune or propitious happening of any kind.
It is the possession of those circumstances or that
state of being which is attended with enjoyment. It is
associated with good luck, good fortune, prosperity,
well-being, delight, health, safety, and love.

Happiness is generic, and is applied to almost every
kind of enjoyment except that of the animal appetites.
It ia a state of well-being characterized by emotions
ranging from contentment to intense joy. These include:
bliss, joy, joyous, carefree, jubilant, exultant,
cheerful, playful, amused, fun, glad, gay, gleeful,
jolly, jovial, delighted, euphoric, ecstatic, thrilled,
elated, enraptured, comfortable, harmonious, and
triumphant. Societies, religions, and individuals have
various views on the nature of happiness and how to
pursue it.

Only saint-like persons, who feel that they are no
longer interested in the external world, think that
happiness is within. For many persons, nothing can make
them happy. Our minds are as different as our finger
prints - no two are alike. Listening to loud music
makes one happy and makes another unhappy. Hence, there
can be no single definition for happiness. It is
probably impossible to objectively define happiness as
humans know and understand it, as internal experiences
are subjective by nature. Because of this, explaining
happiness as experienced by one individual is as
pointless as trying to define the color green such that
a completely color blind person could understand the
experience of seeing green.

As a state and a subject, it has been pursued and
commented on extensively throughout world history.

"Call no man happy till he is dead." - Aeschylus

"Happiness is a positive cash flow." - Fred Adler

"Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes
true happiness. It is not attained through
self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy
purpose." - Joseph Addison

"True happiness arises, in the first place, from the
enjoyment of one's self, and in the next, from the
friendship and conversation of a few select
companions." - Joseph Addison

Happiness is often associated with the presence of
favourable circumstances such as a supportive family
life, a loving marriage, and economic stability. Kali
Yuga, the age of darkness, is the time when these
favourables are difficult to find.

Unfavorable circumstances - such as abusive
relationships, accidents, loss of employment, and
conflicts - diminish the amount of happiness a person
experiences. In all nations, factors such as hunger,
disease, crime, corruption, and warfare can decrease
happiness. However, according to several ancient and
modern thinkers, happiness is influenced by the
attitude and perspective taken on such circumstances.

From the observation that fish must become happy by
swimming, and birds must become happy by flying.
Aristotle points to the unique abilities of man as the
route to happiness. Of all the animals only man can sit
and contemplate reality. Of all the animals only man
can develop social relations to the political level.
Thus the contemplative life of a monk or professor, or
the political life of a military commander or
politician will be the happiest according to their own
psyche.

The following is the self-reported positive affect
(i.e. positive emotion) during the day by 909 employed
women in USA:

Activities and their positive effect index:

Intimate relations 5.10
Socializing 4.59
Relaxing 4.42
Pray/Worship/Meditate 4.35
Eating 4.34
Exercising 4.31
Watching TV 4.19
Shopping 3.95
Preparing food 3.93
On the phone 3.92
Napping 3.87
Taking care of
my children 3.86
Computer/Email/
Internet 3.81
Housework 3.73
Working 3.62
Commuting 3.45

Interaction with partners:

w/ friends 4.36
w/ relatives 4.17
w/ spouse/Significant
other 4.11
w/ children 4.04
w/ clients/customers 3.79
w/ co-workers 3.76
w/ boss 3.52
alone 3.41

Further, happiness is not entirely psychological in
nature - it has got a biological basis too. The
neurotransmitter dopamine is involved in desire and
seems often related to pleasure. Pleasure can be
induced artificially with drugs. Use of drugs is not
some thing new, it has been used by many including Sanyasis since millenia.

2007-09-22 23:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by d_r_siva 7 · 0 0

Not really. After living in a different town for almost 3 years, I still hate it. And my shyness has gotten worse. I'm now socially anxious and anti-social. I hope one day I'll seek therapy.

2007-09-23 06:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by RiRi 4 · 0 0

at this time,im confused.......too many problems but if i walk along the street and see beggars begging,i cry a little tear and realize how lucky i am!!!

2007-09-22 22:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by june mark c 2 · 0 0

no my life sux, an i mean majorly

2007-09-23 01:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by gary 1 · 0 0

not really i have much to do a long journey to travel.

2007-09-23 01:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

abSoLuTeLy Not.

2007-09-22 22:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 3 · 0 0

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