My boyfriend forced me to have sex with him yesterday.
I was saying no but he wouldn't stop. I was trying to push him of me but i couldn't do it. It was like he was a different person. I don't know what to do. I don't know if it is put under rape or not with him being my boyfriend. Can anyone help me please?
2007-09-22 15:58:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Yes it is rape and you should definately dump him and not see him again, it usually only get's worse. He definatly needs to learn a lesson, but before you go pressing charges you should talk with someone you trust and think it through, are you prepared emotionally to go through the system and have to repeat over and over, what he did to you? Are you prepared to answer horrible allegations that you wanted it or were willing (because that is what will happen) , did you love him? If so it get's even harder, emotionally. I'm not saying you shouldn't press charges, but rape is a very emotional experience, if you feel you need to press charges, do it right away, but talk to somone, a counselor maybe and prepare yourself emotionally. You are in my prayers.
2007-09-22 16:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is called rape. You said NO. he had no right to force himself on you. It doesn't matter that he's your bf and other times you've consented. you were assaulted in the worst way a man can assault a woman. What he did is wrong. If you don't want to go to the police you should go to your ob/gyn and tell her or a rape crisis center. You can get the number in your telephone book. You should never see this man again. He is a rapist. I think you should get a voice recorder and get him to admit what he did on tape over the phone then go to the police. Forced sex is rape even if it's your husband.
You tried to push him off of you and he wouldn't stop. You were assaulted.
He shouldn't be your bf anymore. If he did it yesterday he'll do it again tomorrow.
Stay away from him. You deserve so much more.
2007-09-22 23:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by mac babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is rape. talk to the police, go to the hospital, and definately end things with him. Press charges. You probably aren't the first and won't be the last. It may seem embarassing to admit it and go forward with charges, but think how you will feel if you don't and his next girlfriend gets raped. As a male, I emplore you to stop him.
2007-09-22 23:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Spoken Majority 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! Definite rape. Dump your boyfriend immediately and go check in the hospital to be safe.
2007-09-22 23:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answer. If you say no it's rape, plain and simple. Please talk to an adult that you trust and if you don't have anyone call a support phone number. You need to report what happened and stay far away from that sleeze bag.
2007-09-22 23:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by yamemomo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,it is RAPE by all means. Even if you were married to him it would still be considered rape. Lovemaking is about mutual consent, without it means you were forced to do something you were not ready for. SUE HIM!!!
2007-09-22 23:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Angel A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is rape. Go talk to the nearest hospital NOW. Do not wait.
2007-09-22 23:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is rape. Doesn't make any difference if he was your boyfriend.
2007-09-22 23:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you said no, it is rape. Take it to the authorities if you feel you need to. -s
2007-09-22 23:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Smarks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was RAPE!!! Call the cops right now, he won't stop doing this unless you speak up. Drop him right now as well!!!
2007-09-22 23:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by HAGAR!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋