i have been having unprotected intercourse for about the past four weeks and yes! i am trying to have a baby but i am only 18 and really dont no much about being pregnant exept what my best friend has told me she is 4 months along but today i started slightly bleeding and i have a some slight cramps i no it is not my period my cramps when i have my period are very bad and the hurt so i know its not that my blood is very light and my cramps are not bad at all but there still there my nipples are gettin sore and i have noticed i have been urinating more than normal im just 100% sure i am i have been reading on revolution health a site my best friend gave me to go to about pregnancy and it say the fourth week some women have slight bleeding and slight craming so my question is do you think i could be pregnant????
2007-09-22 14:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
okay to all you ppl who may think i am too young and not mature yes!! i am married yess we both have jobs yes!!! i live on my own wo=ith my husband i have been married for 2 years i lost my virginity to him and yes i no kids are expensive i am not trying to concive a child because of my friend okay me and my husband are ready for children just because i am 18 doesnt mean i am not ready i have graduated high school and i am in college so ppl calm down and just chill out
2007-09-22 14:36:41 · update #1
Please add details to your question explain why, at 18, you would be trying to get pregnant? Let me tell you about babies, they are alot of work and cost alot of money and to create one on purpose when you are not in a position to provide for it (more than just love) is selfish. I don't know you're situation but for your sake I hope you have a willing partner with a job that can support you, and enough common sense to realize that you are toying with more lives than just your own.
2007-09-22 14:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am presuming you don't have a mother or older sister you can confide in - if you do, you should really seek their support. If not, you need to see a doctor ASAP. If you are pregnant, your symptoms may indicate a problem. If you are 'not' pregnant, something is still wrong. Yes, It does sound as though you may be pregnant, but in any case a doctor should be involved. With the best of intentions, getting advice from your girlfriend is not the way to go. This is not a self-help issue.
2007-09-22 14:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Alice S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so if you think you could be pregnant why are you asking this questions? ok with that said.. you sound like a young not mature 18 year old.. do you know that having a baby its really expensive?! are you married?! girl you still have a future don't just put it down but having kids.. just because your friends is going to have one that does not mean you need one also! think about it! and we cannot tell you if you are or if you are not pregnant so just take a test!
2007-09-22 14:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by I <3 Izzy. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others think of you first of all. Second, I was married and pregnant at 18 and we have done just fine raising him...and his sister! In my opinion, these people are just rude...maybe due to jealousy! O.k. that being said...It sounds like you may be pregnant. If I were you I would wait and see if you have your period, if not then test. Then if you are pregnant call and make an OB apt. I wish you luck!
2007-09-22 15:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you call it unprotected intercourse when you are trying to conceive? Unprotected intercourse refers to negligence, not trying to have a baby. I hope you are not pregnant because you sound too young to become a mother. Are you married? Have you finished college? Have you traveled, partied a little bit, hung out, grown up, -- don't you want to do these things first? Take a pregnancy test!!!
2007-09-22 14:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you could be, however you can't be diagnosed as such from us. You have a variety of symptoms that would lead one to say that indeed, you have a rather good chance of being pregnant. Take a test. That's the best way to know. You're far enough along that you probably could get a reliable result.
2007-09-22 14:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I JUST HOPE THAT U WON'T BE LIKE BRIT SPEARS. BABIES AREN'T ALWAYS FUN, U KNOW AND U CANNOT RETURN THEM BACK ONCE U'RE TIRED OF PLAYING WITH THEM.
TRY TAKING CARE OF OTHER PPL'S KIDS FIRST.
2007-09-22 18:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋