im in love with him and he asked me if he could touch my boobs. i said yes but now he wants me to take a picture 4 him. im not going to but i love him and i want to make him happy.what should i do???
2007-09-22 13:58:48 · 19 answers · asked by animegirl4life 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im ok with him touching them cause i love him but i would never do something I woudnlt want to do. im very responsible and i dont take crap from no one. so if he was to force himself before i was ready i would kick him in the balls!
2007-09-22 14:20:01 · update #1
Oh, look at those pretty red flags popping up everywhere...
Take it from a 16 year old guy, he probably has no interest in you romantically. The ONLY thing he wants from you is sexual, and if you give him pictures of yourself, they'll somehow get out the entire school. Also, think for a moment--what is he going to be DOING with those pictures anyway? If he's like any normal teenage boy, the answer is "nothing good." The BEST that could happen is he stares at them with his hand down his pants. The absolute worst? Somehow, they end up on the internet. He emails them to one of his friends, they email it to someone else...before you know it, some creepy 40 year old man is staring at you on his computer screen and you don't even know it. Just look at how it's come back to haunt celebrities--it's ALL over the news. Think about it!
Furthermore (and please do not be offended), you simply do not have enough life experience to be able to know what true love is. I don't claim to know either. If you think you're truly in love with him at this young age, your hormones are playing tricks on you. I don't care what any teenager has said, I've seen it so many times I can't count--there's no such thing as "true love" at this age. Please consider that when you're making your decision. If he feels anything close to whatever it is you feel about him (I think the pertinent word here would be "infatuation"), he will be fine with whatever you do. If he isn't fine with it, then he doesn't deserve your time.
Again, take it from a teenage guy: the ONLY thing a 14 year old boy will have on their mind in a relationship is sex, boys by nature at that age aren't in the least bit concerned about long term relationships. And do you want to know the number of high school relationships that last for more than a few years? The number is so infinitesmal that it doesn't even exist, let alone relationships that last in middle school.
2007-09-22 16:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Never, ever let anybody take a topless picture of you, regardless of your age. At 13, you are too young to even be letting anybody touch your breasts. You don't know what he would do with a topless picture of you. He may show it to his friends, he may put it on the internet. You don't want either of those. And next time he wants to touch your boobs tell him no.
2007-09-22 14:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go too far!!! He shouldn't be making u do anything u don't want to do!!!! U know what that would be! But anyways, tell him ur not ready and in the long run it will be sweeter when ur more mature. Ask some of ur friends for advice about what they would do, bacause ur freinds tend to be a lot like u. If he makes u or gets mad break up with him and go with someone who will wait. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-09-22 14:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Cottonswab!!!:) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok....you shouldnt let him touch you like that because you ""love" him. I know you think thats what love is but its not. That is not a sign of "love" to let him touch your boobs. Dont let him touch you anywhere else because you are too young to let him do that to you. SO...DO NOT TAKE A PICTURE! That is disrespectful and you will regret it. Do you want his friends to see it? Thought so....
2007-09-22 16:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by ~Sweetcheeks~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything that u dont want to no matter how uch u love him because im 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and if he asks me something like that and i tell him no he respects it and if your boyfriend loves u how u love him he will do the same also itz jus puppy love cuz theres no way u cood already kno love believe me i thought the same hing at your age wait a few more years and you'll know
2007-09-22 15:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya um.. first off letting him touch you like that is going to give him other ideas.... and so he is going to pressure you into doing other things and if you let him get what he wants he might start to take advantage or become violent if you refuse.... but as for making him happy if he really liked you then he wouldn't do that crap this early especially if your only 13...
2007-09-22 14:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kally 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well personally i think you're too young for that kind of physical relationship with a guy. But that's just me. And I would strongly caution you to NOT let him take the picture, who knows where it might end up? Just stick to your guns.
2007-09-22 15:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Riley K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about all of his friends looking at your breasts. Because that's exactly what will happen, he will show ALL of his friends!!. DON'T do it!! Also, you have lust for him not love you are only 13. Also if he wanted to have sex are you going to do that too? I would hope not!!Boys will try to talk you into doing things that they want. Also, if you both "love" eachother he will respect you and wouldn't want you to do ANYTHING to make you feel uncomfortable.
2007-09-22 14:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Krystle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol at the college thing :) but no it's not wrong or weird about you being yr older it's just a year
2016-05-21 02:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone pressure you into do anything you don't want to do. And DO not take a picture of your breasts and give it to this boy, be responsible for your body and how it's viewed, don't let yourself at so young already become an object.
2007-09-22 14:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋