I am in need of some really good advice. I need some venting and someone to help me look outside my box called life. I have had some major life changes and some really hard changes. I am hanging in there but need someone or people for some support. I really dont need any jokers or anyone that is going to crack on my issues.
If you know of a site or a mesage board that is free with good honest people then please share this with me.
Thanks for your time!!
2007-09-22 13:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by duh..... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do it here, and simply say you want serious answers! hope all gets better, as a matter of fact it will.
2007-09-22 13:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by dodger805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your situation, but I would suggest you consider finding a church you like and attending. If you have any religious leanings that would help, but it isn't absolutely necessary.
Churches can often be a good support group. People will listen to your problems and offer advice and help. Sometimes this can be a way to find the sort of support group you might need.
Good churches have good, caring people in them, and what you need--it seems to me--is people who will care about you and support you. Many churches also have sites and message boards.
There are always some people in churches who are smug or self-righteous. You should be able to spot them right away. Many are just the sort of people you need offering just the support you need. You should also be able to spot them.
Good luck and God bless!!
2007-09-22 13:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, try to take a deep breathe and relax. Do you have one, special true friend, someone you can tell all your secrets to and know that, they wont tell unless you say so? If you go to that person and vent, vent until you are completely vent less and if you don't, find things for you to do to keep you relaxed. What are your favorite past time things to do? If you have them DO IT!! For instance if you like to read any types of books read them, draw, write watch t.v until your eyes burn out or just pick up a phone and call someone, just don't stay feeling depressed. The only thing depression dose is leads to more depression. So please, please, please,please,please ( even though I don't know you at all) try to have some fun, just make it legal and safe.
2007-09-22 13:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Orange Juice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 11:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to vent to someone who honestly cares about your problems, who wants to help you more than anything else in the world, and who will help you out whenever you need help, there's only one person you can go to: Jesus Christ. I know that might not be what you want to hear, but it's true. He loves you SO much, He died just so He could be with you! But He rose again three days later, and is always there if you need Him. All you have to do is believe, and pray, in faith, for Him to help you.
God bless you!
2007-09-22 13:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be nosey, but if I knew the nature of you probelms I could help a little more. If you need to you can e-mail me and I can get you some links from there. That way your not broadcasting your issues. I really would love to help though.
2007-09-22 13:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM sorry to see how u r feeling
i dont know any site right now
but i really wish u the best
2007-09-22 13:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something you enjoy. religion is the best hope you have it. and manythings can help you just relax. moeny is paper and that kind of thing. get a dog do things like that you will enjoy life again lol.
2007-09-22 13:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just try lt here and say you need good advise and help and maybe people will help you out with some really good answers
2007-09-22 13:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are saying. I don't know but... since this is the friends category...
http://www.friendship.co.au/chat
2007-09-22 13:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋