Define the perfect relationship?

Answer 1

Perfect Marriage: I have been married 47 years and a courtship of four and half (we did things like that in our day)
I think that your should look for someone who has a sense of humour, someone who likes similar things to you. Not everything because we all have our own dreams. He may like football and you do not. I think as long as you both compromise about things like that you will have as near enough perfect marriage. Perfect - that's big word. Human beings have flaws, we wouldn't be here if we didn't. we would be floating as angels in heaven amongst the clouds. The secret is how much you stick together in tough times. It's easy to blame each other,(and you will) when things go wrong, whatever it is. You will row about the children, the decorating, etc. etc. but this is all to do with 'growing in a relationship' Being in love and good in the sack is not everything. It's a jolly good start though, but what is very important is both of you listening to each other, understanding what you partner is getting at, talking it over quietly (that's hard sometimes - doesn't always work) The rowing make the relationship stronger sometimes. It a case of meeting halfway, sometimes one is more selfish than the other, this word compromise is a hard one, but you must. It takes two to build a successul marriage. You sometimes have to forgive things that really hurt you. If you can't do that then perhaps it is time to call it a day. Love does conquer all but it shows up in different guises. Be fair to each other and I was told do not let a row go overnight, in other words make up when you are in bed. These are a few of my opinions for what they are worth. Common sense really.

joanny.kins

Answer 2

There isn't one. We all come with baggage. Some of us handle it better than others.... but for sure, marriage/relationships are Admiration, Respect, Passion and Trust. If betrayal goes, with the passion getting shared with someone else, the whole thing is in the toilet, (few marriages survive betrayal in any kind of happy way.....) It is as well important to keep respect and admiration going for your partner.... snide remarks and not being able to solve differences without resentment and rage will kill any relationship... when that happens, a few sessions of counseling usually give the couple the language to solve a problem or problems. Marriage/relationships, as well get severely shaken with unreasonable expectation when having children..... no one ever tells a couple that having a baaayyyybeeeee isn't the lovely romantic thing we are all told... as my mom said, kids can destroy anything

So, having a positive personality helps, along with choosing someone with the same background, religion, politics, education, smarts, as well produces a longer lasting, more compatible association.

As you can see, your question is faaaarrrr more complicated that what might appear at first glance..........

Answer 3

there is no such thing as a "perfect" relationship. A relationship is good when both people put equal efforts to make it work by keeping the lines of communication open and listening to each others needs

Answer 4

a perfect relationship is a relationship that will fail! because someone, at some point, is biting there tongue. If there doing this it will bottle up and a perfect relationship will become a failed relationship. lets face it, everyone is annoying to a degree.

Answer 5

Mine.
To define a perfect relationship is to laugh, cry, have fun, support and trust each other

Answer 6

I'm not sure there is a perfect relationship, but an idea one is where you have communication and respect each other.

Answer 7

One where you are both happy and content with each other. Where you may not even have everything you want in life,yet you are happy just to have each other. A relationship built on love,trust,honesty,commitment,loyalty,communication etc and knowing that you both are happy with each other.

Answer 8

Right now it would be him leaving and never coming back. It's the love and comunication I have with my children and have lost with my husband because he thinks he is my boss and not my partener or equal in the house.

Answer 9

the perfect relationship is when he says yes to anything you ask of him and he agrees to everything you say oh and he hands over his wallet once its full of dosh ah bliss

Answer 10

Impossible