My hubby and I are in greece for our honeymoon...and fighting nonstop. We have been together for 3 years. It's like I don't know who he is! We still have 1 week left. I don't know what to do. This is the worst vacation of my life. Any advice?
2007-09-22 10:36:05 · 10 answers · asked by Kendra O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is the fight about why you are online instead of 'honeymooning' ???
WTH !!
2007-09-22 10:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were to tell you about this couple i know that's in Greece on their honeymoon and having a romantic wonderful time you would think that's nice. Now if i were to tell you about another couple i know who are on their honeymoon in Greece but are fighting and counting the days to get back home and away from each other.What would you say to that couple. I would say how very childish of you both. Some people never get the chance to leave the county or city they are born in and here the two of you are fighting in the most beautiful place in the world. If the two of you can't get along on your own honeymoon you two are in a lot of trouble and better get help right away.
2007-09-22 18:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had you never traveled together before? It's a given that trips can be stressful especially when dealing with a foreign atmosphere but you should have had some experience prior. Traveling together is a good indication of how you will handle changes in your life and being in places outside of your normal comfort zone. These are life issues that will come up every day in your normal life as well. You need to be able to plan well together, create agendas you both agree on, and be able to handle anything together that is thrown at you. If you couldn't do this before you married, it certainly will show itself when traveling. Figure out what you are fighting about and try to work it out otherwise the rest of your life is going to be more of the same.
2007-09-22 17:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find the right place and hold his hands. Remind him how you both have been waiting for this moment for so long and that now that it is here you should make memories of your sharing love.
On the other hand, if you both are fighting nonstop on your HONEYMOON, that is a bad sign and must be looked at seriously.
Are you fighting for stupid reasons or from stress of the wedding? Or are you both having more serious issues?
Good luck to You~
2007-09-22 17:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by HotJewels 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm what are you fighting about? Serious stuff? where to eat dinner? what sites to visit? Hard to know how to answer.
Why not stop fighting. You be the one to take the first move. Just don't engage. Right now. Don't worry about who's right or wrong... just stop. You be the change agent. see how he reacts when you don't act the way he thinks you will. If hyou don't change now... your marriage could be headed for non stop fights til you fight to the divorce courts.
good luck.. go catch some sun on a beach, drink some retsina and hopa`
2007-09-22 17:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dang! Fighting on your honeymoon? This can't be a good sign......So why don't you both just stop fighting and make the most of what is left of your vacation...what a bummer!
2007-09-22 17:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it's prolly a bad sign to fight on the honeymoon why don't you suprise him with langiere or cook him a meal after he comes back to the hotel from doign vation stuff.
2007-09-22 17:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd try to chill and go for walks etc. my husband and i did a bit to b/c we traveled around a lot, but it was also a product of stress from that, wedding planning, meddling mother (mine)... try to let stuf go and talk to him about doing the same
2007-09-22 18:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the best thing to do is get an anullment...sorry to say,but it sounds like it is time
2007-09-22 18:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by devoted husband 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really caint think of any that would help,
2007-09-22 17:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋