Thursday night i went out with some friends and i met my ex's best friend.He said he missed me and that i'm 1 of the best persons he ever met and he wants to be my friend.i was happy that this boy respects me but that meeting reminded me again my ex and how good we were in the start.This friend never mentioned my ex during our conversation so i came to the conclusion that my ex moved on and maybe he has a new gf.I have to say that i didn't feel ok with this and this shows that i still have some feelings for him.Imagine,i feel funny just cause i saw his friend,what if i had seen him instead and plus with another girl?Is it better to avoid going to some places i might see him or stand up and confront?
2007-09-22 10:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bf this meeting iwas confident and strong,i even started to like sby else and my friends were very happy for me.I don't want to pass in the dark side again.
2007-09-22 10:19:40 · update #1
Dont avoid places because of anyone.. But dont confront him, just let it all be. If he misses you too, he'll talk to you. If not dont embarrass yourself.
2007-09-22 10:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let this one setback cause u to think u made a mistake here. u may see him around and with others, but it has nothing to do with your own self worth and who u are. we always seem to go back to when we first met that person and remember how wonderful it use to be, we all do that. for now maybe u should avoid going to the places u might meet up with him, u are still in love with him, but that doesn't mean he is good for u. if u don't feel u are strong enough to see him with another than do avoid the places until your emotionally better. it is funny how meeting one person out of the past can bring on bittersweet memories. it is always best to avoid when we are trying to get over someone.
2007-09-22 11:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the demons run you off. You are strong and in a free society. Don't fall into the trap of you ex- freind neither especially if they are getting along because it would make you the subject of conversation. The best thing is stand up to your feet, don't feel shy or ashamed and, don't hid, talk assertively to your ex-bf freind, No means No, no execuses, and there is nothing they would do, and move on with your life. If they threaten you, always remember that the authority is on you side.
2007-09-22 10:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him. Say hi and walk away. The real question you should ask yourself is what do you do if you meet him and he isnt with another girl. Because you say he isnt a good person I am not sure what that means to you, but if you don't think he is a good person you should probably stay away from him.
2007-09-22 10:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by scorch_22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel all these negative feelings I think that you'd be better of with him. You don't need any thing to bring you down espcically if you're feeling weird when you get near his friend.
2007-09-22 10:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think ur exs best friend was hitting on you, and yes its better to stay away from those places
2007-09-22 10:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋