What to do?

Question

if you had a friend and they called you a "n****r" and then claimed that it wasn't them. What would u you do, would you forgive them or stay angry at them? your hell would be appreciated

he called my cell phone last night askin me if i still wanted to be friends wit him cause i told him i couldnt trust him anymore sfter that. i mean a real friend wouldn't call you that or let someone do it. he told me he will be my friend no matter what i choose.

Answer 1

Forgive and forget.


If they do anything like that again, leave them .

But everybody deserves a second chance.

Answer 2

sorry but i would never be friends with some 1 who called me a racist name sorry but its not nice and not funny even if he did apologize thats not enuff do u no how long people have been calling blacks that name? ya a long time and it should stop so what u need 2 do is call or talk 2 that person about it and ask y did u say that and just talk it over but i really think u should avoid this person 4 a while because what he said 2 u was really mean and low i hate the n word and it should b banished it sounds so dirty hope i helped

Answer 3

If you heard it from another person, then you should definately forgive him. The person you heard it from could have manipulated the truth to get your temperature to rise. But if your friend told you that he called you that then you should forgive him too. It takes guts to call someone that to their face, but even more guts to call you up on the phone and tell you that they will still be your friend and ask for forgiveness.

Answer 4

If you don't know for sure that they did it, then I would forgive them.
Sometimes forgiving a person is just enough to make them change their ways.

Answer 5

somtimes or friends do things that hurt us ,i no, but the best thing to do is to forgive.he nos that it hurt you,and i dont think itll happen again.but you obviously care for this friend and mabie he could end up ur friend for life.so make amends,loosing a good friend that u may have forever is devastating.good luck

Answer 6

i would confront the person and ask what his/her intentions were with the comment. you know it could have been in a joking way, in that case there's nothing to fuzz about.. but then we both weren't in the situation so we can't judge. the only one you can ask is your friend and then hope for the best he/she will be honest with you.......

Answer 7

how do you feel? it appears that really got you upset i mean you dn't trust him why did you have to tell him that. i mean you know what he is not friend but its always good to keep enemies close by so you knw what they are doing good luck

Answer 8

forgive n forget, don't be too senstive over this. names is just a names. ugh.

Answer 9

forgive