my husband is childish will he ever change?

Answer 1

Not likely

Answer 2

He may or may not. It depends on what he is being childish about. If it is something he really believe in, then you can count it LOST. I will say this... If you are willing to put up with it and stay with him, which I really don't want you to easily think that leaving is the best thing. This is what you do... you change. I know you are saying what's up with that? I found out dealing with a man that really got on my nerves, I wanted to leave, but love made me stay. I was praying about him one day, then an inner voice spoke to me and said,'' If you change, then the situation around you will change''. I was so busy looking and getting angry about his crazy behavior until I had not realized that I wasn't going to leave him, God was tired of me complaining about him, so I had to change the way I reacted to his silliness. When he act childish, find a peaceful place and go there. At times you can just look at him and say,'' that must really hurt, can I get you anything? Or just smile at him. After awhile, he'll think you have lost it and start watching the way he behaves. Try it and if it does not work, then you call the funny farm and have him admitted, you can do this, you are his wife. LOL

Answer 3

Nope. I know the type. I have a friend that is 50, been married for over 25 years. His wife is 6 years old than he is and I swear that he must have wanted to marry mommy. She complains constantly that her husband is a "little boy", but she treats him like one and he loves it. Very weird. I think she actually enjoys it, too.

Unless you have the same dynamic, it's not going to be a very fulfilling life for you. And, it's probably not your fault. Some guys don't show that side of them until after they are married.

But, change? Not gonna happen. That's the way he comes from the factory. If you're young and haven't been married too long with no kids, seriously consider breaking it off and starting over. Life's too short.

Answer 4

Was he childish when you met him? Was he childish when you were dating? Was he childish when you first were married? People change in time. You have probably matured and your tastes have changed. You need to talk to him about this issue and make sure you are not enabling him. Maybe you are allowing him to be childish in the relationship.

Answer 5

People change all the time. BUT he is male and childishness doesn't seem to go away. They usually are either good but childish or bad and childish.

Answer 6

Well I seriously doubt it cuz I've been married 6 yrs now and mine hasn't he thinks he has but all he does is put on a show for the public so I look like and *** when I get after him for his childish behaviors.

Answer 7

You married him as he is. If this was not the man you wanted to be married to why did you CHOOSE to marry him? Marrying with the expectation that someone will change is simply making sure the marriage is doomed. If he wasn't what you wanted in the first place you should have moved on. Now it's going to cost you a divorce to do so.

Answer 8

NO!! heck be happy he's not a control freak! As long as he's raising kids, paying bills, and not cheating on you or beating you, Let him have fun. I liked being the crazy dad in the neighborhood. All the kids loved hanging out with me and my kids, We always had go carts going or motorized scooters, all kinds of neat games and fun, Get him a cold beer, thank him for being a good man and Smile. Good Luck

Answer 9

i'm going to have to say no to that one sorry. Until he is ready to grow up or something makes him he will stay the same childish person you loved enough to marry.

Answer 10

Some do and others don't. Never expect anyone to change. A lot of people are childest at one time or other and it would also be according to his age.

Answer 11

OF course NOT..Men never change, love them and accept them as they are..Women are the ones that have to change in order to keep a man..and a family..