It may be true that many Asian girls date Caucasian guys, but what is up with Asian guys and their reaction?
If a girl is mixed, or born and raised in America, what is wrong with marrying outside her race?
I've spoken to some Asian guys and they all say that Asian girls are all "sell-outs" etc. by dating outside their race. The fact is that many of these girls were born and raised in the Midwest or some White state for example...so what is wrong with that?
I am part Asian and I lived my entire life in a white area. Hence all my boyfriends have been white. I admit I am more attracted to non-Asians, but so what? I just like big eyes and high noses...
Don't get me wrong. I do have Asian guy friends, but they tend to think like me. And they usually have Caucasian girlfriends. I feel as if the Asian guys who complain about Asian girls just can't get any from ANY girl, regardless of her race.
2007-09-22 09:18:51 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. Alford 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
there's some losers in every race, why should asians be any different. Anyway, I don't care who you date
2007-09-24 09:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they care about the fact that you date interracially but they care about your ATTITUDE about it. A lot of asian girls will ONLY date white guys and actually talks very badly about asian guys. That is selling out if you degrade your own race. You know if you were in their position you would get mad too. Anyone would.
2007-09-22 22:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me it has nothing to do with the actual relationship or even race. It's more to do with the asian girl trying to make me jealous or thinking she's superior to me because she has a white boyfriend (lol) or insults me. It also has to do with white people (mostly guys, but girls too) calling me names and stereotypes...or insults as well. I guess you'd have to be in my shoes to understand.
I think a lot of it has to do with the couple thinking they're the center of attention and a lot of that goes towards their head.
2007-09-22 21:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of Asian guys date non-Asian girls. I'm Mexican and i have dated Asian guys.
2007-09-22 17:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it may be the way they are raised.The way they are expected to stay within there race?This is my view on it.
I have always tho rt that its unfair because to me it should not be about color, it should be about personal choice. I mean how do Asian people really feel about arranged marriages?
I would love to hear there point of view.
2007-09-22 16:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
most asian families like to marry in here race b/c thats how they are raised ma great grandma tryies 2 hook me up wit a flio guy cuz thats wat we are but my mom is half white half filo im white and filo and spanish and my bf is hispanic and asian and german so i mean it jus depends how u r raised i guess
2007-09-22 17:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by cesars_wifey22107 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now adays, it is not uncommon to see Asian men dating women who are not Asian. People need to be left to choose who they want to be with. There is no wrong choice.
2007-09-22 16:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
the Asian guys I know really don't care about trivial things like that.
2007-09-22 16:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by VENOM! 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's the same as any minority race, which significantly dates the majority race.
2007-09-22 16:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by bettercockster7 c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be stumbled what others think you should do and like. I can empathize with you and once I decided to not allow myself to be frustrated by what people thought concerning what type of guy I was attracted to, I was at peace.
2007-09-22 16:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋