My friend is supposed to be gay and ive never had a gay best friend.?

Question

every one keeps telling me that my best friend is gay. Every time i ask her about it she never says anything. she has ben my best friend forever and i really do love her. do i leave her and tell her to find more friends or stick her like a real friend should?

Answer 1

If a friend is loyal to you and is a good person, you stick with them through thick and thin. If sexuality is an issue that is actually affecting your relationship as friends, there might be some problems there. But if you want to leave your friend simply because she is a lesbian, you do not deserve her friendship.

Answer 2

Well, first off, just because he's told you he's gay doesnt necessarily mean he's attracted to you. He should be there for swim practice, nothing else. However, we are all human, and he might find himself feeling a bit uneasy at times (ie., showering). This is where you come in, as his support. Because he may want to like just take a 13 second shower and get the fk out of there! Ya know ? :-) And, my guess is it would give him some comfort knowing that you know why he's uneasy about that. My brother has a great fear of showers and toilets. Its a sort of water phobia. If he hears any strange noises with the water pressure, he gets all panicky. Sometimes he likes to leave the door open while showering, knowing Im right directly in the other room in case anything happens (lol, its kinda silly, I know). But, it is a real phobia. In the same way, I just think he's counting on you for support. ANd, hell, if anyone asks why he behaves strangely, you could just tell them he has a water phobia too (btw, swimming pools dont affect my brother!). Also, I think that over time this will become more of a non-issue, just like being in the mens room. Kudos to your friend for having the guts to go with you though. And, you should be proud of yourself for being a true friend. Now go on, the both of you, and swim your hearts out!

Answer 3

I'm not sure what "supposed to be gay" is. But a good friend is better than gold, trust me. And if she is, it sounds like she wants to be discreet and not one of those obnoxious militants who want everybody to think like them. So, either way, hang on to her, but don't ever let her talk you into something you are uncomfortable with. She sounds to classy for that anyway. Friends accept each other. I have many and I wouldn't trade one for the powerball lottery ten times over. OK, there's one I might trade, but that's it. When you die, you will have only three things that matter: your faith, your friends, and the stories you have to tell. peace

Answer 4

Well if they were your friend before, loyal and true, they'll be your friend after. Perhaps she wont say one way or another because your so unsure about it. Fear isnt a friendly thing, remember that. And what kind of trust does that build if you told her to go. Take it as a bonding thing if she is.
She's your friend. The end.

Answer 5

How does her supposed sexuality affect your friendship? If you are a friend it should not matter at all. Perhaps she doesn't tell you her sexuality because she knows that to you a friendship has qualifications. Whatever her sexuality, that is her business not yours. If she wants you to know, she will tell you. Until then no-one knows - including the gossip mongers.

If this is how you treat friends it is a wonder you have any at all.

Answer 6

A real friend would stick with her.

Answer 7

Is this a joke? how old are you? Of cource you stick by her, when your older you realise how STUPID your being,

Answer 8

Well obviously stay with her... She'll tell you when she feels like it.