My ex-wife got run over and has just come out of hospital after 3 months, and is recovering at home.
My ex-partner is very christian.
She always wants the truth.
She had a very hard time getting over our relationship.
Until now she has not found anyone else.
The two women used to hate each other (normal under the circumstances).
My new partner wants to be friends with her.
Should she write a short note "Hope you get better soon"or a long detailed note "sorry for what happened"?
There is a 30 year age gap between the two of them.
My ex-partner is almost 60.
My new partner is almost 30.
Any advice/feedback/comments appreciated
Many thanks
2007-09-22 08:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by gaijin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am assuming that your ex wife is the mother of your son, so that would be the reason your new partner needs to have a relationship with your ex. If that is the case and providing there has been a suitable length of time between both relationships I think a card, and on the inside she can just say that she hopes she gets well soon and offers help and support. It is then up to your ex wife to decide what to do.
If there is no real reason for them to have a relationship then they shouldn’t and your new partner should leave well alone.
2007-09-22 09:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by ********** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would end up hurting the your ex-wife is she knows her that you were screwing her around with her. Depeneding on her heart of forgiveness, if they be freinds, then they would turn their anger towards you. Incase your ex partner is asking you a permission to befreind your ex-wife, you may see the crows running down the streets, up the hill and down the value before its dust. The major topic would be you and way to set a trap on you. Women, especially being hurt, are unpredictable on what comes next.
2007-09-22 16:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably best to let it rest and not send the ex any type of note. She may take it as an insult and feel that your new mate is just trying to rub it in that she has you and not look at it as attempting to befriend her. If it doesn't come naturally leave it and let it go to rest.
2007-09-22 15:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see where there's a need for anything to be done. Your ex is just that, your ex. What difference does it make what your new partner does?
2007-09-22 15:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a serious friendship will evolve, be reaalistic, maybe a get well card, to be civil, and open the doors forcommunication at a more persoonal level. hope she gets better
2007-09-22 15:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean, yea tell her to go ahead and send her a nice get well card, and leave it at that.. I mean what exactly are you asking ??
2007-09-22 16:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having a laugh, aren't you lol
2007-09-22 15:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋