My MOTHER'S GOING CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

ok, my friend invited me to a festival tonight that was being thrown by her church, and it's at one of the church members' house. Tons of people would be there and there would chaperones. Plus all my friends. when i show her the flyer, she's all like what church is this? im like, idk? she's like " i dont want you going to some cult thing." i'm like, mom, it's not a cult! it's a christain church! Were christain so idk what the big deal is. Then i had to tell my freinds that i couldnt go cuz my mother's a phsyco. So my friend offered to sleepover at her house with my other friend that my mom has met before. So i ask if i can do that, and she's lke, inever met those ppl b 4. i'm like, well you'll meet them and make sure everything's ok. But she refuses!


i didn't do anything to upset her b4 this. She is totally crossing the line here. idont wanna be sitting here on yahoo answers on a saturday night. BTW in 13. what do i do?

Answer 1

your 13, listen to your mother. shes not insane she loves you and will protect you. Motherly instincts. (btw im not a mom, im a kid who didn't listen to her mom and screwed up lots because of it)

Answer 2

No. you at the instant are not overreacting. Your reacting recommendations are thoroughly conventional in this difficulty. Your mom's strikes even nonetheless won't have been overreacting in her recommendations. There are factors that could make contributions on your mom's reaction. they're as follows: -did you advance up an basically baby? -became your mom a single parent? i does no longer stress appropriate to the area too lots (existence is going on). i recognize a good style of mothers that could react an identical way. the wonderful thank you to handle that's to bypass on your mom and in basic terms with courtesy bring up the form, thank her for her help, yet nicely ask her to permit you experience those issues on your guy or woman. you're sufficiently previous to shield your self and she or he needs to understand that. desire this enables. stable success.

Answer 3

Umm, maybe your mom cares about you enough to want to know where you will be and who you will be with? If you can't even tell her the name of the church, why should she let you go? What if something happened and she needed to get in touch with you? She doesn't know where you are because you are too irresponsible to find out the specifics. As for telling your friends that your mom is psycho, that is really showing how childish you are. I doubt that her mental status is the reason she is telling you no. If you have already begged her to let you go somewhere tonight and she told you no, she may think you are using this sleepover as an excuse to go to the un-named church. Today is a little late for her to be meeting your friends and getting to know them enough to make sure everything is ok. You should have brought your friends by to meet your mom sooner. With your attitude, you're lucky you have the computer to keep you company on a Saturday night.

Answer 4

Invite her along to the church thing to check it out. A lot of parents have problems with their kids doing religious things that dont mesh with their beliefs... be a christian but dont swing from trees telling anyone... stuff like that.
As for the friend and the sleep over, since your probably gunna get dropped off or she's going to pick you up, have the other mother come back in and reintroduce herself. Once your mom meets the other mom, she will probably remember who she is and will let you go.

Answer 5

Because you're 13 you may interpret what your mother did as psychotic, but she knows some things you don't....namely, every church that calls itself "Christian" isn't necessarily wholesome in its practices, in fact, there have been cases (well-documented and part of public record) where nearly entire congregations of a church have engaged in mass suicides...three such instances come to mind, at least one of which may have occurred within your lifetime. They were ALL Christians. Your mother's being skeptical and protective because it's her job and she loves you. She knows there are a lot of people that aren't here with us today because no one stepped in for them in time to avert a tragedy. (Do some research on your own...read about Jim Jones of the People's Temple, Guyana (1978) and about the Branch Davidians.)

Answer 6

yor mother loves you and listen to her and obey her else yo uwill soon become a mother of illegal child and then yo uwill relaize how much a mother loves her daughter. so get you mother's love instead of becoimg a mothe r at this age

Answer 7

well, that sucks. your mom's getting a little protective is all... just talk to her, without getting mad, about why she won't let you go. then, CALMLY, tell her why you are upset about it. if you act like an adult, she'll treat you like one.

Answer 8

ask her to go with you for a while and check it out. sorry buddy but your crazy mom is gonna give you a hard life....

Answer 9

respect your mother. by acting like an adult, you will be treated like an adult.

if you act like a child like you are doing right now, then you shall continue to be treated like one.


my parents did the same to me, i acted like you did at your age and was not allowed to do anything.

then my brother gave me the advice i just gave you, and i found he was right.

instead of being immature and angery. with childish selfish temper tantrums, as you are doing, i decided to act like an adult.

and to do that i decided to stop thinking about myself and trust my parents reasons. by respecting them and speaking to them like a mature calm adult, they treated me like one , and my Freedom I ended up gaining for myself by myself.

Trust me , or be childish, your choice.

Answer 10

im 13 too but i would just respect ur mom but if u dont want too u could hav ur friends mom call ur mom or something and talk to herand then ur mom cant really say no... thats wut i do lol always works :)