I am a regular black guy. I dress wearing dockers and button down polo shirts on most days. Clean cut and positve and productive. I don't think black woman are attracted to me. I try to talk to them(normal conversation) I think they think I am a nerd or something. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
2007-09-22 08:27:19 · 12 answers · asked by Ron H. Appraiser 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Actually white woman appraoch me,
and want to have lunch or something all the time.
2007-09-22 08:35:04 · update #1
Marylyn-Usually Nerdy guys don't go to night clubs
2007-09-22 08:37:28 · update #2
I hate to say it white woman allways compliment me because they think I am smart, black woman compliment on the types of clothes(material itmes) that I wear.
2007-09-22 08:39:13 · update #3
J.T you are correct. I get funny looks from blackwoman when i am having lunch with the white girls. And it's these same woman that would not give me the time of day.
2007-09-22 08:51:34 · update #4
Thats hillarious, the minute you hook up with a white woman the black women get pissed.
2007-09-22 08:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 2 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Honey were you been at all my life. Most of these black women (the young ones) are only attracted to the almighty $$$. It is sad that the majority of black women now and days look at a mans worth by the money he has in his pocket. the thugs, the dope dealer... the ones with no real future are the men that they go after. The want a captain to save their ho*e azzes.
You want a real woman.. seek out a real, mature woman. Stay faithful and pray.... your Queen will come to you!
2007-09-22 15:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the hoodrats and find an intelligent black woman (if you are indeed limiting yourself as such) or just search for a woman, period, who finds your style and intellect appealing.
I'm a sucker for nerds myself and most of my best friends are as well. Don't feel discouraged. Not all black women want a fake gangsta to latch onto.
2007-09-22 15:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Qwerty™ 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
The right woman is out there waiting for you. Don't change yourself just to please a woman. I'm sure that there is at least one black woman out there that is attracted to the type that you are. Don't give up! Shes out there somewhere. By the way, as a woman, I like a guy who is more himself than someone who tries to be something just to please me.
Good luck, you'll find her eventually when you aren't looking.
2007-09-22 15:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Do white women treat you the same way? I am only asking because if they are then it has nothing to do with the race of these women. Perhaps, you should confide in someone you trust and ask them. You may get the advice you seek.
2007-09-22 15:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ugogirl 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It may be the places you are meeting them at.Maybe you should just do things you enjoy doing and you can meet someone who enjoys the same activity.
If you are going to night clubs and such, they may be looking for "bad boy" types.
Just be yourself and soo ner or later you will meet someone nice.
2007-09-22 15:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Marilyn T 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
go for the white women
nothin a white woman likes more than a"normal" black guy
2007-09-22 15:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
yes what you need to do is do not wear dockers go to footlocker and buy some jordans then jcpenny buy so shirts that young kids wear today but make sure that there polo and polo and shorts make sure the shirt comes down to your elbow and the shorts come past your knees and do not wear high socks and wear some ear rings in both ears.
2007-09-22 15:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by dedrick_bateman @yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋
post a pic. but as in everything, everyone has a preference.
2007-09-22 15:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Lupita 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
try different women matey
2007-09-22 15:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by chocolate1rhianna 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋