I don't want to know about a particular person. I want to know in general, the behaviors etc
2007-09-22 08:24:01 · 13 answers · asked by Pansy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I am not going to ask because I am not interested. All of you give "practical" love advice not requested here! All I am asking is, are there some cues in behavior, dress, etc etc that even should be there or are there?
2007-09-22 08:32:03 · update #1
Married people never live where they date. So if you meet someone who says they are on a buisness trip, then they are probably married. Married people will never give you a home number. Lastly, married men can't get rid of the ring indentation on their fourth finger, left hand.
2007-09-22 08:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by James H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.Watch for strange behavior while on dates. If your date's cell phone rings at the restaurant and he or she has to urgently flee your table to answer it, you may be tempted to wonder why. Give in to that temptation. It could be an important work call, but then again, it could be his or her spouse, and the latter possibility becomes increasingly plausible if it seems to happen time and time again. You also should think it strange if he or she sees someone and tries to avoid them.
2.Watch his or her reaction when you talk about family or past relationships. Usually these things come up in the course of conversation, but if you're suspicious, you may want to tactfully bring them up. If the person seems uncomfortable talking about such subjects, or if their body language indicates that they may be lying, your suspicions may be warranted.
3.Drive by his or her house or stop by unexpectedly. This assumes you know where the person lives, and it also assumes that you believe you have reason to be suspicious. Usually a visit to the house will quickly tell you if the person is married.
4.Do some sleuthing. A simple internet search for the person's name may turn up some interesting information, such as photos of him and his wife at a party or their names appearing together on a club's membership roster. If you want to get a little bit more involved, you can do a public records search and look for things like joint homeownership. A person's car can also provide you some clues. Does the registration in the glove box list two names, for example, or somebody else's name? Is their lipstick in your man's car?
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2007-09-22 15:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Captin Obvious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Married people that don't display a ring usually make up lots of excuses. If they always have an excuse for not having you over to the apartment/house thats a good sign. If they don't want you to met the kids/family, thats a good sign....
Excuses excuses excuses!!!
2007-09-22 15:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there are no specific behaviors to give the notion that someone is married. The ring is usually it.
2007-09-22 15:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ugogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask. Alot of people that I have noticed who are married, especially we women, will be more guarded when talking to a man, we will probably mention our spouse in the conversation.
2007-09-22 15:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by Diana A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Asking.
2007-09-22 15:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Qwerty™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they're a woman, they have an old housecoat and hair in curlers. If they're a man they are miserable, beer gut and a look of dispair is on their face.
2007-09-22 15:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Qwerty said it straight. If not, little leading statements starting with " I bet the Mrs ..." might enourage him to voluteer the info.
2007-09-22 15:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Angeline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way at all. Asking only works if they tell the truth.
2007-09-22 15:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, get married and find out.
2007-09-22 15:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋