2007-09-22 07:56:45 · 12 answers · asked by phaedra s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It really depends on why you are wanting to leave.... If you are in an abusive situation or a situation that you feel is innapropriate for raising your child in a safe/healthy environment, you should not under any circumstances stay with him.
Depending on where you live, there are resources. Call your local welfare dept., tell them the situation and see what your options are. If you are in a domestic violence situation, call your local police dept and they will lead you to a SAFE house.
Very Best Wishes!
2007-09-22 08:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by gracie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always go to a pregnancy resource center in your area- and they set you up in your own apartment for free, but you have to try and get a job. Or they will set you up if you want to live with someone- they will put you with a couple who can take care of you and keep you safe. Look up pregnancy resource centers in your area. When I was pregnant with my 1st child I was a senior in high school and my mom and her alcoholic boyfriend kicked me out and the babys daddy was on the ship in the navy, so I had no choice but to go to a shelter for pregnant woman only. You dont have to worry about bills, or food, or anything. You are not locked down or anything. Good luck
2007-09-22 08:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by lil_soldier_girl_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you find another way to support yourself. Don't stay with someone that you don't want to be with. What justice will you be serving your child that grows up in home where she will obviously see that her mother doesn't love her father. What kind of example will you be setting?
There are alternatives
Friends or relatives I am sure would let you stay with them until you got on your feet..
what about your parents? I am sure that they will be more than happy to help their daughter.
Stay strong and don't let others' pessimistic attitudes get the better of your need for happiness. Let them be miserable, you don't have to be.
2007-09-22 08:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you stick it out! You cant afford bills... neither can everyone else, your pregnant so is alot of women, want to leave baby's father? Why you got pregnant with him you should work things out with him before running away from them... It takes time.. I cant get a divorce everytime i have a big argument or dissagree with my husband, Things should take time before they are officially over.
2007-09-22 08:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hanna and Ryan's Momma 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do it now, before the baby arrives. Get yourself sorted, there is help out there so get it now and settle yourself down to a new life just you and your little one. Good luck and do it now for your new babies sake....the deserve a happy Mummy.
2007-09-22 08:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by aza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you that but if you have to leave for a good reason womens aid or a shelter can help you and help you sort your money etc
2007-09-22 08:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by jmc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation... in the words of my Mother...
Suck it up and deal with him, for the support of your baby...
:)
2007-09-22 08:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by LiLmamma 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you can turn over custody of your baby to me
2007-09-22 08:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by kdutton06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you join the club.
2007-09-22 08:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by j_andrews8081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you join the rest of us that are doomed.
2007-09-22 08:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋