Apparently boys have gone from dodging there responsibility (boy bad) to now forcing girls pregnant (boy bad)?

Question

All this is, is girls lying to cover themselves of responsibility, but of course it is the boys/mens fault. Where is this boy/man bashing and girl/woman lack of personal responsibility going to end.


http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2007-09/uoc--tgr092007.php

Answer 1

That would be funny, if it wasn't so sad. Men have run the world for centuries and they can't they run their own families and raise their kids right. So they have to listen to someone else now, but I feel your pain. The stress is ratcheting up. Hang in there for the full show. Men just need to study Emotional Intelligence and that leads into intuition to take the lead back. We gave that to women and thought it wasn't masculine. In other words, we lost heart or got confused. David, for instance, was a poet and musician to Saul to soothe Saul's troubled spirit. Women need soothing too and they have to soothe us. Well they stopped, perhaps copying us. And we don't have the were whithal, when we need soothing ourselves. Women can't do that anyway, no on can. It's a skill we need, like knowing how to be happy. Emotional Intelligence, as a subject, can do that for us. It's just that, if I'm a man or a woman, I would say, I'll take the responsibility, if I'm able to respond. That's the ability to respond. We can only respond by working on ourselves. Pushing the problem onto someone else is the whole problem. I say I can, only because I looked up EI and have the power, I'm able to respond and will do my part because now I can. EI makes you tough. I can take all that's dished out on that subject. No one needs more criticism and can't take any more. In other words, if we fix our own self esteem we can fix others pain, we can actually help them. Whyh not? Only the strong can do that and not by criticizing. Has that helped you, for instance? Criticism roles off your back with EI. At the very least, that kind. If someone has a complaint, my response is some subtle attitude of how can I help? See what I mean? No negative judgmental words in your vocabulary and you won't be like the critizers you hate. It's the blame game and it's catchy and then, we feel we have to critcize also like catching a virus. We don't really do any good by passing a virus on. It's not objectivity, but emotional. Descriptive words are scientific, solution oriented, sychronize with our creativity and the total objectivity of the subconscious and pull the whole mind into production. That can solve problems and accept responsibility, not in the sense of any more blame than anyone else, just with more ability to respond. Not just as in a response, answer to the criticism, but a response to the problem and soothing the situation like a man. People love you for that. I don't mean posing, sincere compassion as they hurt, aren't coping and it came out, justified or not. It can be done in a very manly way. If we can fix it mentality in our selves, then we fix those around us. We are the adults. That mind shift, altered consciousness, higher consciousness or whatever you call it, is now being seen as what we called genius, for so long. It's just the best use of the mind and language. Open to ordinary people now, thanks to science and how the mind is made. luv Oh, love comes from insight, that's seeing within, first ourselves. With seeng into ourselves and 'relating to ourselves, comes seeing into others, 'relating' to them and seing into issues and 'relating' to them. Social relativity. As pressures increase, we are feeling their pain and confusion. They are feeling ours. It doubles. Can we control both theirs and ours. Over time or if you already have a lot of social skills and information. That's alway been womens strong point, but now it's beyond many people, male or female, we have to help them learn how to cope. Oh, yeah, did I say us first? We owe it to ourselves first. Criticism is just upping the pressure, more, and like throwing gas on a fire, the blame game is to pass the buck. It used to be a man said, the buck stops here. Wouldn't you like that kind of strength for the 21st century or let someone else handle the pain? Actually we are joined together with the problems of now and can help each other, emotionally, if nothing else, and not cave. OK, now I think I have the words. It's like a parent with an emotionally immature child. They, in effect say, there, there, poor thing. Of course with an adult its more sublte. Then you teach the child emotional maturity. It's almost the responsibility of an adult to any child or other adult for that matter, as you have to live with them, if nothing else. Alternatively, if their more emotionally mature, they can help you or where they are. It's the job of magazines and media to stir up trouble and then 'solve' it. Yeah, sure, and lose readers. Issues are their money cow like doctors have sick people. No one in their right minds think like the media promotes until people do feel that way, if possible, and feel more and more alienated, afraid of each other until they are fighting. Lincoln Stephens, a muchracker, reported that they were doing it in his time in the 1800's, I believe and they're still doing it even more skillfully. When the papers ran out of news back then, they would go to the police station for crime reports. If news was down for a long time they would report on the 'crime wave'. Neat, huh. Always turn your enemies and your victims against one another so you won't see what they are doing. I would be made at the greedy manipulators. See that man nipulators. Oh, they know where it hurts. Of course we play our role, no one gets of Scott free, sorry.
Thanks for the question all men face and probably women as well, I guess.