im pretty, smart, really outgoing, and all around a really nice, fun person. However, sometimes i fear that people will not like me. honestly, i dont know why because I am a nice person and treat others with kindness, respect, and really listen to what they have to say. I hate braggarts, and would never discuss this with anyone in person. Yes, in reality people rly do like me. I really love other people and relate to what they are going through, becuase i have been through A LOT myself. Yet, at times I fear that people will actually DISlike me and a ball of fear. I concoct this paranoia within my own mind, and i need help overcoming the obstacles my mind has created for me. At times I honestly believe that people will not like me, because i am a great person and have a lot gonig for me. This was actually the case with some seniors when i was only a FRESHMAN. It really took a toll on me and made me feel ashamed of being a greta person. PLZ help mee, i still feel shame at times,guilt
2007-09-22 05:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by liveinlove<3 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Stop thinking and just do! Everyone out there is wondering the same thing, do they really like me or it it my shoes, or hair, or money or limo...Everyone wonders if people are liking them when the fact is no one is thinking of them unless they are doing something wrong, they are thinking of themselves and trying not to make a foll of themselves. Now that I have told you what is happening, stop thinking your so important and just have fun. People form an opinion about YOU only as it relates to THEM. People are basically all self-centered! Don't hurt anyone and even if you don't say anything people will think your the nicest person alive. Listen well and they will think well of you.
2007-09-22 05:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by cavassi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your popular and have alot of friends but you have no real self esteem. Not everybody's going to like you. No one can say that EVERYONE likes them unless their a a two faced phony and no one actually knows them. Don't worry about it. Who cares what other people think about you? If you like you, you're ahead of the curb. If people dislike you chances are your complex and interesting and other people are just too stupid and/or jealous to take the time to "get' you." Life is too important to be taken seriously."- Oscar Wilde
2007-09-22 05:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by sheyna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mind is not your enemy.those people are simply jealous of you . they want to be like you are .be your self and if people don't like you there will be others that do
2007-09-22 05:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In short ,yes.Ignore your mind and listen to your heart.
2007-09-22 10:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a dumb a$$
2007-09-22 05:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋