im 15 and i was just wondering whether i have done to much wid guys, ok so i have given 2 hand jobs one to a guy i wasnt goin out wid at the time wen we were skivin off school at his house and in his bed wid another girl there, the same girl who gave me a love bite on the same day (we were all just messing around in his bed) ok and the second hand job i gave to a guy i was seeing for about a few days after we had quite a few kisses after school (we did this on the school premises)
im still a virgin tho! so is this to much for a 15 year old to have done? am i a slut? plz be honest...
2007-09-22 05:08:04 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it does sound worse written dwn i no
2007-09-22 05:19:40 · update #1
Take a break. Try studying, especially grammar. Your English is atrocious.
2007-09-22 05:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by buttfor2007 5 · 21⤊ 2⤋
its to much a girl your age. If you don't want to wait until your married to do these things just do it with one person. Remember people likes to talk soon your name will be around the school calling you a whore. I don't think u would people talking about that way. And now if you have a boy friend and someone tells him what they heard about you he'll break you with you i don't think this is the right time to be wild you should be getting an education instead of guys.
2007-09-22 05:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your uncomfortable with what you've done then it is too much. You also need to remember that other people often find out about these types of activities, and they will likely talk. Remember that at 15 you have ALOT of time left to experiment with things, when your 25 you don't want to look back on your teen years and have any regrets... I wouldn't involve myself with any sexual activity that was not surrounded by a loving relationship, you may end up feeling used. Be careful, and think about what is important to you now, and what will be important to you later...
2007-09-22 05:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. Sorry I just think that if you are already messing around with more than one person in bed you need to think about where your life is headed. But hey if that makes you happy then when you turn 18 move to Vegas and join a brothel. Good Luck. PS. When you do have sex use a condom!!!
2007-09-28 08:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really. It was "safe" sex, so you were smart about it. It sounds like it was all in fun so you didn't get a heart broken over it and no one talked you into anything you regretted later.
I mean it's not anything you'd want to get out if you run for Prime Minister in 40 years, but it's not anything to be ashamed of. :-)
So don't worry, you're wonderfully average for a girl in the 21st Century. And you're doing way better than the "I'm 13, I'm pregnant now what" girls here. You're doing just fine I say.
2007-09-22 07:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! thats insane. u need 2 chill....messing around like that @ such a young age will get u into trouble. ull end up in a situation u either wont be able 2 handle or ur gonna end up in one that u dont like. all the stuff ur doing only leads up 2 one thing...sex...as u keep doing this stuff ull wanna go further and further(especially the guys cuz they could care less about u when they're 15. they just wanna f*ck 2 brag 2 their friends...) and ull end up losing ur virginity @ a young age and u dont want that...do u wanna end up pregnant? get a bad reputation? get an std? i dont think so....stop now!
2007-09-22 05:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by TriniBeauty. 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't think ur age is the problem in my opnion the problem is u weren't in a serious relationship... I've done some things with guys (more like one guy) but I had been dating them for way longer then a few days
2007-09-22 15:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore what everyone else is saying. you are 15 years old and its only natural to be experimenting. these people are all saying its wrong because of what is correct by the law. as long as you are sensible and take precaution then you are only doing what some other 15 year olds are. stay safe and remember never do anything you dont want
if you are ready for sex speak to your parents and remember to use contreception xx
2007-09-30 04:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by J Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is!!!!!!!!!!
You shouldn't be doing anything like that before you get married. Anything sexual should be saved for the marriage bed, not for just anybody who comes along. Anything outside of the marriage bed is a sin.
Sure the guys like it, but you are too young to understand the impact of what you have done.
I am a Christian and I believe that God created you for someone special. That someone special is somewhere in your future, but at age 15, you will not see that person until you are both ready. When will you be ready? Only God knows. I certainly don't know. Listen to God and you will find out what He has planned for you.
Remember this. You are unique. You are very special In Gods eyes and you shouldn't ruin that.
Anybody that reads this that isn't a Christian, will tell you I am full of it, but that is because they don't understand Gods Love and His plan for their life either. They especially don't know Gods plan for you, so why would you listen to them?
The guys that you did this with enjoyed it and would hate me if you told them what I have said. But the same thing applies to them as well, they just don't know it yet.
Anything you do outside of marriage will have certain effects on your future spouse. Is it really worth the risk?
Save yourself for your future spouse. It will be worth it.
You can contact me if you want more information about this subject. My contact info is on my profile.
I hope this helps.
PS
If the wrong person finds out about what you have done, the guys you were involved with would be in very serious trouble. They could go to jail if they are over 18. Don't put yourself or anybody else at risk. It's not worth it.
2007-09-22 05:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Xtruckerwannabe 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
yes you are doing way too much wiht guys and tha tis wrong. how do you expect them to respect you? they have to respect you or if they know you are easy you will be popular which isn't the kind you want. i might say you'd best be careful or you'll be having babies before you know it and left alone also no guy likes a girl that has been around alot and they do talk alot believe me.
2007-09-26 14:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly a lot of girl are doing a lot worse they're just not admitting it, but I think you should slow down cuz you may develope a bad reputation. Hold on to your virginity.
2007-09-28 15:59:43 · answer #11 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋