it feels perfect and natural and "right"
2007-09-22 04:00:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good for you.
I chose to be his equal.
FYI - I smell a troll.
2007-09-22 04:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If your speaking of submitting as written in the Bible (Ephesians 5: 21-33), then it feels good because it what WE are supposed to do. By WE I am speaking of woman and MAN. If each of you are working to meets the need of the other then of course it will feel "natural and right".
2007-09-22 10:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by teebaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels that way to you, my guess would be you were raised in a home where women were viewed as less than equal to a man, and were taught to submit, so of course it would feel natural to someone like that. Other people, myself included, were taught that a woman should always be able to A). Have skills to earn money so she can take care of herself if a man where to...oh, I dunno....leave. B). To respect my male partner as my equal, but to allow for my needs to be met on the same level as his needs. and C). To NEVER, not EVER, allow myself to be in a position to be physically, mentally, or emotionally abused (which by the way is not submission, it's a crime). My list is not in order, I believe I was taught "C" first, as I look back, but, if taking direction from a man, trusting that he is always right and looking out for his needs before yours makes you happy....go right ahead, just don't blame anyone if you find yourself alone, mistreated or without a means to feed the children you may have brought in to the world.
2007-09-22 04:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Super_Star 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
it doesnt feel good to me and i wouldnt "submit" to anyone if you are cool with that go for it but to more than not it doesnt feel good it feels like you are a child and cant do things yourself i think it is a control thing and you are def not in control
2007-09-22 04:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Are you specific you desire to understand the clarification to your behaviors? as quickly as you have made specific discoveries and insights, you will be able to no longer be waiting to pass lower back and stay "the way it particularly is meant to be" anymore. There are loopy issues that ensue to each physique, some have which potential, some do no longer, yet there are those issues that ensue or you observe that boost into unintended, unconcious existence policies of "the way it particularly is meant to be". that are in no way questionsed or examined, those little existence policies are the clarification human beings say issues like "It merely feels suitable", "I might desire to stick to my coronary heart" "i be attentive to it particularly is incorrect notwithstanding it particularly is appropriate for us." and so on the excuses why you're tender with your issue may be chanced on by utilising examining your existence and goals with a series of visits to a sturdy councelor. you will be able to locate the two considered one of you're harmlessly place enjoying, you will be able to locate he's slowly removing your suitable to make any judgements, you will be able to locate why you settle for living 2 seperate lives one claiming to be a Feminist and the different as a Stepford spouse. Do you have expert collegues, college acquaintances or kin who have self belief you're a feminist and can be stunned to take heed to of this different existence? a sturdy councelor might supply help to understand why you settle for a existence that must be degrading and shallow to a good number of girls human beings. no possible determine for you in case you ought to stay living this way yet there are pink flags and warning symptoms flashing all around you. Is he offering you with (no longer procuring you) as plenty interest and attempt to delight you? Alot of folk might ignore approximately all the warnings and merely permit issues pass on a similar, till he strikes on or you're so caught which you will't pass on. NO, No it particularly isn't any longer a compliment to be shown off to different adult men. i've got self belief he's extremely aggressive and you're getting used as a prop to win social factors to he may be "Da guy". So in case you're eye-candy, what happens once you ideal candy coating starts off to chip and choose maintenance? Does he additionally be attentive to there is something interior that candy coating? this may be an quite lonely and empty existence.
2016-10-05 04:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by hughart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you are talking about sex, not submission if I am reading your post correctly. It is the ying and yang of it all; give of yourself - he gives of himself and it is a perfect union.
2007-09-22 04:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your boat! Only you know what feels good for you and if it works for both of you, congrats!
2007-09-22 04:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by cautious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL
You're joking right?
No?
Yeah okay... When I use to "submit" to my ex I got beaten. I don't submit to any man or woman.
2007-09-22 04:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Spring 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
THen the relationship style must work for you...
2007-09-22 04:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Bob D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by submission.
2007-09-22 06:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by im sure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋