My friends claim that I follow them lot but i stopped. Now they bring that up from 2 years ago and we r in 9th grade. Why cant they move on? They even said to not follow them on basketball tournaments when i join basketball team. Is that reasonable or cruel?
2007-09-22 03:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By the way, we r friends since 1st grade. They do like me but think I still follow them when I happen to be in same class as them. My school is small and other school I go to doesnt really talk to deaf kids (us)
2007-09-22 03:48:42 · update #1
One friend is girl and other is guy. The guy is 14 and the girl is same age as me but 2 months younger than me
2007-09-22 04:02:43 · update #2
so, what it sounds like is that your 'friends' dont want you around? maybe you should reconsider being friends..sorry
good luck=]
2007-09-22 03:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a similar problem in school. I finally decided to tell them to leave me alone and that bother them, and I went on feeling hurt for a while but over time I made some trusting friends that I still have today and I am 38. Those friends are not your friends cause a true honest friend would never do that to you.
I know it hurts, because I came from a very small class of 67 people and it was hard, because everyone knew your business. I hope this go well for you, and this has taking me back in time, to remember the days I hated school. I hope you will hang in there and be strong. Good luck.
2007-09-22 10:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by cirtus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely cruel. Drop them and get new ones i'm serious. Use them for now until you find atleast 2 new ones that you trust and have a really good time with. Sign up for some clubs outside of schools that you like. Do you like dancing, well then try out. Meat some new people and hang out with them after school. Start meeting some new people at school. Inclass conversate more. Make yourself somone who is talked about and is considered very sweat and nice. Maybe get yourself a new bf just to add a little more spicey fun to your life. Your friends sound very controlling and you need to find control over yourself, but do it secretly. Pray a lot and ask god to help you find a new friend within the week or eventually so you can live like a free person with an open mind. I left behind atleast 8 x bestfriends and mad 3 new ones. We hang out together and speak our minds about a lot. When we disagree we usually just let it pass by, but of corse theres even been an insident where one of them bitched out to use and left the school at lunch time. We forgive and we don't really backstab. If you can find a group of i'd recommend 4 girls then your really good to go. Don;t talk crap about people or else they'll eventually find out and stop hanging with you. Boleive me on that one it's not worth it.
good luck girly!
2007-09-22 10:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let these girls rule your life! I'm sure you have other friends besides them, I wouldn't want friends like that. Remember treat others as you would like to be treated. I know girls that do these things only do it because they are very insecure and don't want people looking at all their flaws.
If you don't want to be the butt of their conversations, you need to move on. And remember just because they are nice one day, does not mean that they will be nice the next. If they can't let this stuff go after 2 years, they never will. I would rather have no friends,than to feel like a peace of crap around my supposedly good friends. Hang out with people that make you feel good and are encouraging. These girls think they are leaders, don't follow their bull****.
2007-09-22 10:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Peng-you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats jealously !!!! tell them your on the team just the same as they are and your not following them. tell them in front of the coach & everybody else who wants to hear you. but make it clear that your not following them if your not.
2007-09-22 10:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by joes_mom86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cruel. try to talk it out with them and fix things up, but dont take too long cuz theyll get annoyed again
2007-09-22 10:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by musicmarvel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not friends therefore move on and get new ones. if you can't hear there are many people out there that like people who can't hear take a risk and move on take care.
2007-09-30 00:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need better friends.
2007-09-22 10:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by boldyman2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋