With her and a group of friends from work, I told her i may be able to go but wasn't sure because I had other plans. When I told her I couldn't go, her facial expressions indicated that she was very dissapointed that I wasn't able to go. Then ignored me for the rest of the day. How should i take this, I told her that I already had plans and there was only a chance that I could go. Should I apalogize
2007-09-22 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What other plans do you have????
2007-09-22 03:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are male. She is female. THAT means by definition, YOU apologize and you are obligated to do something to make up for it. Apparently she is interested in YOU, for what reason only God knows! Regardless, time to make her feel better about things. She was embarrassed, though logically, she had no reason to be. Ask her out and say you are sorry about not being available previously. This could develop into a really good thing for you!
2007-09-22 05:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by rowlfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably was embarrassed for having asked you, and that is why she ignored you.
Were you really busy, telling the truth about why you couldn't make it for the dinner, or were you just making up an excuse because you didn't want to go?
If it was an excuse, it might have been really obvious and she thought you were sort of tacky.
2007-09-22 03:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you need to apologize if there is only one chance to go ahead with your plans. If you feel uncomfortable because she ignored you, well...ask her out for dinner and next time she wont ignore you. You need to know that is a bad idea to mix work with relationships, remember that you will see her everyday at work.
2007-09-22 03:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by ()()()()()() 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes apologize, tell her you couldn't brake the plans you already had, and ask her to dinner a diffrent day. Have a great time! God Bless!
2007-09-22 03:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by camii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to do something else while incorporation a quick low-key apology. "Hey, I wanted to know if you want to go to the movies this Saturday." ...[..continue conversation..]... "Yea, sorry I couldn't make it to [...] the other day. The guys and I already had plans. But I hope you can make it this Saturday!" ..[continue conversation...]...
By asking her to do something, it shows that you genuinely did want to hang out with her in the first place.
2007-09-22 03:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Zeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to dinner on a night that your both free! Make it up to her! She obviously was very disappointed that you couldn't make it!
2007-09-22 03:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are sorry and if there is another time they are going out you would love to go.
2007-09-23 15:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was kind of childish of her to ignore you. If you have plans, just do what you have to do.
2007-09-22 03:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER FOR ANOTHER TIME
2007-09-22 03:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋