Last year me my bf spent a week at the poconos resort & after that we drove to Dorney park and spent 1 night in the hotel.. And this year we went to Florida keys and on both of these trips we gotten into arguements..Are there others out there that has had the same thing happen to them?And why on vacation especially knowing all the money you are spending on the vacation. But still I really do look forward to next years vacation. and ps we been together for 3+ years.
2007-09-22 02:37:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because on vacation you are with each other 24/7 which can be quite stressful
2007-09-22 02:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Purdycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know my gfs family fights a lot on vacation. Most of the time its because people have differnt ideas of what a vaction is supposed to be. Some people want to relax, and others want to do as much as possible. This can cause fights, not to metion that some familys just shouldnt spend that much time together, with is probably from not spending enought time together to begin with.
2016-03-18 22:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you are not on vacation you are having your lives. You both don't see each other all day because you are at work or you have your friends or other stuff. then when you go on vacation it is just the two of you all day long. Maybe you are not good together and the only way you can be happy together is when you have other things to distract you. When I go on vacation with my husband we really don't fight. We are more happy. i wish you luck
2007-09-22 02:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rhonda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont have that problem on vacations and have been married for 10 years.
We take our time and try not to rush, I guess its nice being around people who enjoy doing the same things as you.
2007-09-22 02:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by nelppik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you are busy with normal life, you don't have much time to really annoy one another.
On vacation, you are forced to live in close proximity for many hours. Irritating things that your partner does once in a while are more frequent because of your extended esposure to each other. Your normal routine and things you like to do are interrupted and you are having to deal with someone constantly.
I believe that we are all attached to our daily routine. I think it is important for us to learn to give up our attachments and try to enjoy what we are presented with. Sometimes that means giving up our expectations or our wants in the interest of learning something new about ourselves or our partner.
2007-09-22 02:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Skeptic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to re evaluate your relationship with this guy. When you go on vacation with someone you should have the tI'me of your life with them. Personally every time im on vacation with my hubby we have a blast...cause we are truly meant to be together and we love each others company and have fun no matter where we go. Maybe he doesn't want to be with you or visa verse and he feels pressured into going with you or visa verse???
2007-09-22 02:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by robin r 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your vacation is an upset from your routine. That is stressful for some people.
2007-09-22 02:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
VACATION OR NOT,THEY ARGUE FOR THE SAME REASON THEY ARGUE AT HOME.....NO COMMUNICATION,NO RESPECT.SOONER OR LATER THEY END UP IN FRONT OF A JUDGE..FOR DIVORCE OR MURDER.
SOME PEOPLE WILL JUST NOT GET IT....NO ONES WORTH GETTING UPSET OVER...PERIOD
2007-09-22 02:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because that is the only time they have to argue, probably
2007-09-22 02:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to much time with eachother numb nuts, tell the skank you want SEPRATE vacations. That being alone with her for more than a couple of hours gets you sick to your stomach!
2007-09-22 02:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋