Do married couples alway settle their disputes peacfully or do they resort to violence also ?
When is it justified for a wife to beat her husband and vice versa ?
How common is physical violence in marriage ?
What kind of violence is practised by women in marriage ?
2007-09-22 02:08:52 · 24 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi
most married couples settle their disputes peacefully but then again they have to have that level of understanding and maturity to accept the fault if it is theirs.Never go to sleep with an unresolved problem It festers like a wound till it gets unbearably painful.the couples who resort to violence are not willing to accept their faults and they feel getting physical shuts the other up.thats not the answer.
Its never justified that any body MALE or FEMALE ever resort to violence to solve their problems.Nobody has the right to hit anybody not ur wife/husband or children.You have no right to lift ur hand on anybody.
Maybe among the lower strata of society it is a common enough occurance as the man needs to constantly prove his masculinity.and the women are too scared to hit back.Sick marraiges have physical violence as a common factor in their lives.
the violence women practice is of a more subtle nature where they mentally torture the poor guy and drive him to suicide.
2007-09-25 20:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by suneri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To day in USA domestic violence is not tolerated by most "Law enforcement agency", it is a felony and jail sentence are handed out.
This should be the case all over the world.
However enforcement depends on the complains and man power available to enforce it.
Do married couples always settle their disputes peacefully or do they resort to violence also ?
No.
They do resort to violence, from time to time.
We are all individuals and behave in the individual manner. But they cannot comply with this common sense non violence policy which should be the rule.
When is it justified for a wife to beat her husband and vice verse ?
Never, but it happens more often then not.
How common is physical violence in marriage ?
This depends on the cultural up bringing. From practically non o extreme.
What kind of violence is practised by women in marriage ?
All kind, again mainly cultural thing.
2007-09-22 02:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
married couples should always settle peacefully. it is never justified to beat anyone. violence in marriage is more common than you think. women can have the same violent temper as men. i know this because i was one that was in a violent marrige. i hold the memory and scares to prove it. that is why i'm on disability now. my ex. had tried to kill me,raped me broke in my house to burn it. he stole my care. he kidnapped my son twice.that was the worst in my mind. he had sex with my oldest daughter and i didn't know it until later that also was my worst! the cops and courts didn't help me at all. i was left to my own help. that was why i had to buy a gun. the cops that did try to help knew about it and never tried to take it away from me. that was when i had to use it on him. but the good lord had me forget that the safety was on or i would have killed him. now i am scared to walk in this world because he is still walking around. i also found out that he has beaten up two other women. if the law would have done there jobs he would be in jail for attempted murder on me. so in my eyes it is never justifiable for any one to get beat down.
2007-09-22 02:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the world made you come up with this question??
You have GOT to be serious!!! I really feel sorry for you and your spouse when you "tie the knot" :(
Married couples, at least me and my husband of fifteen years thank you, settle our disputes peacefully.
It is NEVER justified for a husband to beat his wife and visa versa!!! :(
Physical violence is common in a marriage, but it is up to the husband or the wife to get out and get help, physical violence is wrong! :(
If violence is practiced in any marriage, I feel sorry for that marriage, and they both should get out before they do any more harm to eachother, and their children if any.
2007-09-22 02:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Violence is never justifiable, yes now a days women do hit their husband. It happens when either one takes too much advantage of other person and when argued the one who is taking disadvantage hits the innocent one to cover their mistake. But women do hit their husband even in upper middle class also
2007-09-24 01:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they settle differences through violence, there's a serious problem within the relationship. It's NEVER justifiable to physically hurt another person and it's a matter of control and trying to control another person. Relationships such as the one you speak of are better off ended. Physical abuse is against the law and should NEVER be condoned by anyone.
2007-09-22 02:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not common. if its done it can have the police involved. the man should never put a hand on the woman period. its called marrital violence and other things and its prosecuted. its not good. a woman generally will fight back sometimes or maybe she'll not give sex for soemthign i have heard of that. but its all just nonsense and if its lead to worse stuff it can get violent and then there is police involved and jail time.
2007-09-27 14:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel frustrated enough to resort to physical violence, there is a problem with you and your husbands ability to communicate with each other. usually it is an indication of you feeling as though you are not being heard.
I would seek couples counselling and talk about your feelings of rage.
I have felt this way but I have thrown pots on the floor to make a loud noise. I never try to hurt anyone. (Evne my pot throwing is not healthy but it is a release...)
2007-09-22 02:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by beemusic 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Common or not, it is unhealthy for sure. In my opinion shouting at each other is the limit (not very often though). If they resort to violence they need to consult a counsellor.
2007-09-25 18:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by quicksilver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about common, but yes some spouses beat each other when angry.
It is never justified. A man or woman should NEVER hit a spouse no matter how angry one gets.
Physical abuse knows no age limit, no economic or social background. Its a bad thing that happens in every society.
2007-09-22 02:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Beatrice C 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋