she has done some things to you that weren't favorable,but you in turn ask her to come here(ordering her around)curse like crazy in front of her knowing she doesn't like it,play mind games with her,piss her off by asking her age forcefully, drive her out of a facility out of anger and things of those nature.
2007-09-22 01:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, yes, the conversation could have taken a more low key tone and with better language. If this is the way your relationship just is, my advice is to end it, and cut your losses short. Obviously there are some deception and manners issues going wrong in this case.
2007-09-22 07:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I am sure that treating people as they treat you will make the situation better - NOT! Treat people as you would have them treat you, no matter how they treat you. Respect everyone no matter what they do to you, and eventually their behavior may change, and at the very least you will not have added insult to injury and compound the problem. At some point someone has to act as the adult, and stop playing childish games, if you ever want to see an end to a conflict.
2007-09-22 08:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by cavassi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, couldn't you just ask her around nicely and have a calm talk with her in private. Why do people have to play games? Sounds like you hate her, so why are you together (if you actually are together)?
I think you both need therapy.
2007-09-22 08:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Fröken Fräken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to that. A better question is "did you express to her directly with words some of the 'unfavorable things' she has done to you before reacting in such an aggressive manner?"
Also good questions to ask yourself ", What is making me so angry? Does it go beyond this one woman?"
2007-09-22 08:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kabiira 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in a mutually destructive relationship. Get out before its too late or you will also destroy any children you may have.
2007-09-22 18:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel Maria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you deserve one another. You're both without a clue about human decency.
2007-09-22 08:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all sounds very grown up. Revenge.......eats you from the inside out
2007-09-22 17:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what she did. If you were over reacting, then you were disrespecting her.
2007-09-22 09:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by sara dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not disrespectful. It's abuse. There's a difference.
2007-09-22 10:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by JusMe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋