My cousin and I went to this restaurant a few weeks ago, and I saw my ex bf, then last week we went back only because I was in the area and we were starving, he had the courage to come up and talk to me. I never really got over him, and I think he feels the same. Tonight we went back because she wanted to go but I didn't because I didn't want to feel like a stalker... I thought we went early enough where he wouldn’t be their. I kept saying to my cousin "were going to see him leaving"... and guess who we saw when I felt as he was coming in??? I was sooo embarrassed so I said hi to him like a fool lol... Now I feel like I cant NEVER go their again...
2007-09-21 18:30:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea but he works their... and I have been trying to find a job in that area... I dont live in a small town eather
2007-09-21 18:53:48 · update #1
honestly, i would feel the same way (except maybe i would have wanted to go). but the truth is you didn't go there for him...it probably made him feel special (not that you were a stalker). i'm sure he took it as a compliment. :) just remember, ex-boyfriends are ex's for a reason!
2007-09-21 18:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bella, cute name btw, dont worry. just dont go back for a little while so u dont seem obsesed but if u still have feelings for him maybe u should go back in a few weeks and ask him if he wants to get together for coffee or something. Maybe he likes u coming in, u never kno
2007-09-21 18:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to worry about anything with your ex. You need to continue to do things that make you happy. If you are going to the restaurant to run into him, then you need to figure out what it is you want to do. Either let him be a part of your past, or communicate your intentions of wanting to be with him. Make sure that the decision you make is one that is going to make you the happiest. Good luck.
2007-09-21 18:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you went there way too much. Is that the only restaurant in your town? You were ex's for a reason - it didn't work. It won't work again so don't even think about it.
2007-09-21 18:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by M J 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Haha, in the beginning, that's lovable. yet besides, it is all with reference to the way you experience with reference to the area. it must be sturdy to tell her you have been flirting and get to comprehend her extra helpful once you assume it to quite circulate someplace, yet be confident to be attentive to her reactions, and make confident she realizes which you quite have an interest in her. Be honest, it is an pleasing high quality. =) stay away from making up excuses - telling her your telephone died is probable a foul thought. She won't comprehend it died, and you in no way comprehend what conclusions must be drawn.
2016-12-26 21:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just plain silly. People break up, that does not mean you can never go to a restuarant you life EVER again. If you two are being civil, great.
2007-09-21 18:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were just having a meal. It is a public place where everybody goes. But if you feel that uncomfortable don't go back.
2007-09-21 20:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mad Man in a Blue Box 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, seems like a stalker to me too. so u live in a small village where there re no other restaurants?
2007-09-21 18:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he had his turn. He's your ex now. Sounds like a great restaurant, be ashame to stop eating there because of an ex. I wouldn't sweat it, or him. take your now b/f there.
2007-09-21 18:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a public place, go if you want to. Beside saying hello sufficed.
2007-09-21 18:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋