When A guy breaks up with you why do they always say its me not you?? Why cant they just flat out tell you I dont like you and found someone else. WHY ARE PEOPLE SO COMPLICATED???????
2007-09-21 18:27:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know girls do it to. But I heard a boy say it last. So Im pretty much just asking why everyone does it.
2007-09-21 18:36:49 · update #1
did he really use that on you? boys are stupid and mean. well, ok, they're not ALL stupid and mean. It's just an easy way for them to get out of a relationship! if they blame themselves, they think you won't feel so bad about it. really, in a sad way, he's just looking out for your feelings.
My advice is to move on and find a new boy. there's lots of them out there! eventually one will be a keeper.
2007-09-21 18:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by MELBA1220 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you said is a generalization because either man or woman can use that line. However, sometime the person may genuinely feel like it is them. That they have the problem and they need time to grow. It's not ALWAYS a generic line. Sometime it is a nice way of saying you two are not compatible. Either way you know that he is not the one you need and someone else is out there waiting to whisk you off your feet. So he did you a favor. You should say thank you.
2007-09-21 18:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by BeautifulOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes are guilty of the same thing. Guys say it to girls and girls say it to guys and both are trying to end a relationship without hurting the other persons feelings and it's not always they don't like you any more or they found someone else.
Sometimes it could be as simple as they are afraid they will disappoint you or not live up to your expectations.
2007-09-21 18:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not complicating, we just complicate the hell out of it! Or better said, GUYS complicate the hell out of it. No worries though..do you believe that there's only one amazing guy out there for you that you will love more than anything? Well, then just remember, that means that 99% of the guys you meet won't be THE ONE. So, thank the stupid boy for going his own way because he did you a favor. It's process of elimination, and now you know he's not the one. =)
2007-09-21 18:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by ac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. It can get complicated, as you said.
The trick is to be honest to the music of your
own soul. If it doesn't sound right/it's not.
He wasn't right for you. You saved yourself
some time and sorrow. Don't waste anymore
time on him. You should never settle for anything
less than cherished, Isn't that how every woman
should feel by her man?
Go for Cherished.
L
2007-09-21 18:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its complicated 1because some people date for the wrong reason. 2 they don't know each other before they go out. and 3 because girls settle for less than they deserve.
2007-09-21 18:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Chelsey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are pretty basic really-
They do not want to hurt your feelings and may feel in doing so would have you not like them or just that they are selfish morons who need to be left alone but always manage to help another be unhappy.
Not complicated just inexperienced in realtionships and direct communcation-Take care,
bc
2007-09-21 18:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that he found someone else? Girls always assume this. Why do girls always think that another person ended your relationship? Is it easier if you blame another girl for what happened to you?
It is easier being alone than it is to date someone that you no longer like.
He says that because he doesn't really know why he lost that loving feeling, and he doesn't really want to take the time to figure it all out. He just wants out.
Even Homer knows this. Duh.
2007-09-21 18:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey girls are the same way. dont b blaming guys here. we get mixed signals like crazy. you tell us one thing, mean another, then wen we do something different u freak. u drive us more crazy than that little crappy breakup line ever will. a/w to answer your Q they are probably a softy or just too weak to admit that they want to go for some1 else or just dont like u anymore.
2007-09-21 18:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jasx501 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you date when you are 13, 14 years old.
2007-09-21 18:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋