2007-09-21 17:58:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I stick to my husband. If I had a boyfriend too, then I really WOULD be in trouble. ;)
How is it? It's arousing, satisfying, sometimes painful and incredibly intimate. It's a deeper expression of trust than 'plain' sex ever was between us.
Maybe it fulfills a primitive part of my psyche - the part the outer feminist doesn't let see the light of day. But when I curl up beside him with a well-spanked butt...I feel close to him, safe, loved. Sounds odd perhaps, but you have to share the desire to really 'get' it.
Erotic spanking is not abuse - it's simply a different expression of sexuality than some are comfortable with. Some people like to be bitten or have their hair pulled - I like to get spanked.
I'm assuming that we're talking about consensual spanking here; it it's done without consent, it's a whole 'nother thing.
2007-09-25 04:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That all depend on how hard your getting spanked and if you like the pain. I personally love it and when your in the heat of passion it can be exciting.
2007-09-21 18:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug355 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if it is horse play or you have been a naughty girl.
Legally speaking it is physical abuse. In Missouri it is legal for a husband to spank his wife,but he can't beat her up.
Then there are those people who get their sex kicks from spanking too.
2007-09-21 18:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls find it a huge turn-on. If you're curious, why not try it? The worst is that you won't enjoy it and will have a sore bottom for an hour or two. But if it turns out to be your thing, you could both be in for a lot of sexy fun.
2007-09-21 21:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Totally depends on if you asked him to. If you asked him to spank you, both of you will enjoy it. If not, then kick him where it counts and dump him.
2007-09-21 18:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If my boyfriend, spanked me he would no longer be my boyfriend, and that goes for Husband, too.
2007-09-21 18:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Complete and total ecstasy....
There is just something incredibly and wonderfully erotic about being over your man's knee... being lectured ever so soundly, and having your bottom blistered to a deep crimson red.....
Iz just one of those things....
you either dig it, or ya don't!
I for one, TOTALLY dig it!!!!
Chunk up the deuce!!!;)
2007-09-25 05:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nnniiiicceee! Very nice.
2007-09-21 18:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
<3 it... lol you get to feel like a hooker.. lol no im joking ive never been "SPANKED" really hard.. so yea i wudnt no.
My friend says its painfull but she loves it.
2007-09-21 18:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
At least the bf enjoys it I don't know if you girls do?
2007-09-21 18:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋