My Bf wants to meet up at a hang out and then walk to a restaraunt and not tell my parents. I want to dump him hard for that, its a sin to lie and to disobey your parents. He asked me over the phone and I didn't quite prosses what he said so I said I'll think about it. HELP!!!!
2007-09-21 15:23:09 · 35 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you should dump him. you are right it is a sin to lie and to disobey your parents. Do what Jesus would want you to do hun. Good luck!
2007-09-21 15:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smart to listen to your inner voice....we all have one....and when a bell goes off in our heads that something is not right...usually it's true.
When someone wants you to do something that is against your belief system then they have crossed the line. It's NO to them. You have to live with yourself..and face the results if you do as he asked. Who wants to go in that direction? I know you don't.
Of all the people in the world you don't need to get tied up with someone who insists on you not being honest. There are more "fish in the sea" ..I'd let this fish GO. If he wants you to lie about this just think what else he will ask of you!
Stick to your guns...and don't give in to him.....walk with your head up and do what is right....he will not be worth too much as he grows into adulthood if he tries sneaks around and does not have a good lifestyle or morals.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-09-21 15:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your BF has his own interest in mind and NOT YOURS.
You are right, it is WRONG to lie to your parents. Remember in the whole world, mosy probably ONLY your parent will make a one-way sacrifices, meaning what ever they do, they do not expect you to return the same.
However in other relationship, there is no free lunch, they will expect return of some sort a favour in kind.
As for your BF, he failed the fundamental test of asking you to betray your parent and losses break trust with your parent.
I would seriously consider and re-evaluate the relationhip you have had with your BF.
take care..
2007-09-21 15:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lie to your parents, you'll regret it later. You want your parents respect, and the only way you get it is if your honest. And it means a lot when you get older. And about this guy, why are you wasting your time with a guy that is telling you to do things like that. Any guy that truly respects you will always encourage you to do the right thing. Don't get mixed up with him, your you'll also regret that.
Stay clean, pure and honest. It's definitely worth it!
2007-09-21 15:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up how you feel. You need to let him know that lying to your parents is not kool and that you don not want to do it. An what is wrong with hanging out and walking to a restaurant? I really don't see why your parents wouldn't understand. Also you need to compromise with him. Tell him you will ask your parents and if you can't you will do something else. Something non-sin realated.
2007-09-21 15:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sry ***! If he really cared for u he would ask for that! You shouldn't disobey god and ur parents for a guy that asks u to lie. Its not worth it
2007-09-21 15:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever YOU want.
I don't suggest lieing to your parents, regardless.
If you're already accustomed to lieing to your parents, then go ahead I guess.
Don't worry about what he wants you to do.
Never do something for your bf that you're not interested in doing, it's only fun for the moment, then you'll regret it.
I've been through plenty of it with trouble gf's.
2007-09-21 15:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY NO AND DUMP HIM! man, if he doesnt respect ur thoughts and feelings he isnt worth ur love! if u lie to ur parents, and they find out, they wont trust FOR A VERY LONG TIME
2007-09-21 15:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sin your right- and good choice for not letting people influence you. If i were you- i would let him know how you feel about this... dont judge him for not having the same beliefs as you.. just help him understand...be a friend. If he cant understand that or is not mature enough to respect your responsability- just let it go.
2007-09-21 15:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Yari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever you want, but if you only tell ur parents that you are going for a walk than are u really, completely lying?
2007-09-21 15:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Steve-0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋