2007-09-21 15:12:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be an attractive person. Attractiveness isn't just about how a person looks physically. It is very much about how you behave, how you talk, your mood. So to be attractive to other people: be cheerful and upbeat, be humorous but never unkind in your humor, treat everyone with kindness and respect, listen when others talk, talk to people about things they are interested in, stay active in things that interest you, go out of your way to help people when they need it, offer help when it's not requested but never try to force people to accept help if they refuse it. Smile a LOT!
Always try to look on the bright side of things, even when the bright side seems far-fetched. Don't spend your time being sad or distressed or angry. Those are all minutes you will never have a chance to enjoy again.
All people are attracted to others who are happy, considerate, and pleasant. That includes beautiful women.
Losing weight is an option of course, but that won't make you attractive to others. That will just make you thinner!
2007-09-21 15:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of (unshallow) women can look past the fact that a guy is overweight. Women are most attracted to guys who treat them good and is a great hearted person. Personality is SOOOO important too! A guy who is a so funny and charming is sooo attractive! Let them see how great of a personality you have it will work trust me! Dont be so worked up about your weight and attracting girls because if the girls are not interested in you because of your weight then they arent worth talking to anyways. If you are feeling really insecure about it maybe you could try starting a healthier way of living to maintain a healthy weight...such as excersing and working out or begin eating more healthier foods and leave the junk foods alone.
2007-09-21 22:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by So Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose weight? Seriously, if you believe the reason you aren't attracting beautiful women is cos of fat-loose it. But if you want to have a lasting relationship, work on your personality. Goodluck!
2007-09-21 22:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by damsel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your asking a good question, just be yourself, is there any hobbies you have, that you could perhaps join a club? Chess or bowling or whatever, As long as your mobile and have a good personallity. I don't see a problem, just get out there and have some faith in yourself.
2007-09-21 22:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by tigerashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about confidence in yourself. Be yourself and be really nice to people. Treat people the way you want to be treated and they will see that you're a nice person and just look pass the looks.
2007-09-21 22:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people love each other, nothing can keep their souls apart. Its the odd little things that they do. Being fat really shouldn't have anything to do with it.
I wish you the best of luck and take care.
-Sierra-
2007-09-21 22:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Infamous Guitar Heroine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been attracted to larger men before. Anyone can be sexy and attractive if they are kind and intelligent!
2007-09-21 22:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff a sock in your shorts
2007-09-21 22:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIZE DOESN"T MATTER OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if u go and u r nice to her and sweet she would probably like u too.....ok.........so get that out of ur head and just be happy with the way that u r
2007-09-21 22:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by KeepCool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a thorough, bulletproof happy-go-lucky friendly personality.
Having cash doesn't hurt either.
2007-09-21 22:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jon S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋