Its like he controls the whole house. Today after skool my brother tells me this lie and i didnt kno it. well he gets me in trouble for him damn lie...so my moms bf got in this bad mood cause i didnt kno i was supposed to go outside and help him do something cause my brother made up this dumb lie and i didnt kno wat to do. well whenever my moms bf is in a bad mood well guess wat my mom gets all mad. its like the bf dosnt want to go somewhere and she does well she just like dosnt go cause he dosnt want to go. if he wants to go somewhere makes us go if we dont wanna go. if the bf is in a bad mood so is my mom. its like everything revovles around him and wat he wants to do. its getting really annoying like he dosnt kno how to talk to teenagers were not babies. he gets mad at us for like the simplest things like putting our feet in the desk chair....its really annoying i just want him to like leave.
2007-09-21 14:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
How can i get rid of him thats the damn question...
2007-09-21 14:32:21 · update #1
before he goes get him to teach you to spell
i short your problem is he is giving you discipline and you want to do things your way. you want to destroy your mother happiness by destroying her relationship
2007-09-21 14:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The teen years are bad enough but add a BF or a GF and you find a war. The best thing to do is try to talk to your mom, calmly when the bf is not around. Tell her that you are not trying to cause a problem but you need to talk about how you feel. If you can't talk to her ask her if she would be ok if you wrote her a letter about your feelings. Change is not easy and it is not just you that is trying to fit in. I know it is not fair that you have to deal with this change but you never know this guy may be a great guy. Give him a chance and keep talking about your feelings. I will pray your mom will hear what you have to say.
2007-09-21 14:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by wds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your brother is the problem today, not your mom's boyfriend. You're not going to be able to get rid of your mom's boyfriend, only she can decide if she wants him around. It's not your decision, you're going to have to learn how to talk to him, because it sounds like he's going to be around. It sounds like he's trying to help you mom run the house, and stepping into a role like that, with as many kids as there are, it's a very hard thing for any person. Try and cut him some slack, I'm sure he means no harm, he's trying to help your mom!
PS You're really not supposed to put your feet on the desk chair.
2007-09-21 14:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by my 2 cents 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's part of life. Life is isn't fair, but it looks like you're gonna turn out just fine. For a 13 year old, you seem like a hard worker. Just keep on living and understand that life and family can't be perfect.
2016-05-20 06:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to your mother about how you feel about her boyfriend and how he treats you and how he makes you feel.It may not change anything but at least your mother will know how you feel.Try to be polite and respectful around her boyfriend.Perhaps your mother will see that the problem isn't you but with her boyfriend.It is unlikely your mother will drop her botfriend because "you don't like him" .Can you talk to your dad and see if he can help you .Maybe he can talk with your mother and you will be at least be able to feel happy at home .Talk to your brother too and let him know you don't appreciate him setting you up for trouble.One day he will get caught up in his own lies.Be patient. It can be frustrating when you feel unloved or on the outside looking in.Just curious, does your brother get along with your mother's boyfriend? Take care.
2007-09-23 12:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother how you feel about him. Sometimes parents can be selfish and put their own interests before their children's to satisfy some pathetic loneliness issues. Talk to your mom without her boyfriend around. Meanwhile, make it clear to him that you respect him as an adult, but he has to respect you as well. Good luck with your situation.
2007-09-21 14:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom, tell her that he is not good enough for her, and she deserves a billion times better. She should get that asshole out of YA'LLS house. dang that makes me mad.
2007-09-21 19:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don´t listen to him or tell your mom he´s annoyin´ and he´s bothering u besides your in your house rite? not in his i mean he´s not your father so u don´t have 2 listen to this guy
luck
2007-09-21 14:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Y☆h♥♥ ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom has a boyfriend i don't like to! just learn to ignore it.
there is not much you can do :[
2007-09-21 14:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by iamjessicalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow? ??
2007-09-21 14:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋