I just truly asked this girl out. She agreed to go out with me, but, Her parents think she is to young for dating(She is 16). What should I do?(Im 16 as well BTW). Should i approach her and ask her to go even though her parents think not to, or should i just let her slip. Please i need to know by next friday (Homecoming)
2007-09-21 14:09:19 · 9 answers · asked by my_chem_bparade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry if you guys didnt understand, i am an idiot for saying letting her slip.... I really am. Thanks for the whole father approach everyone, Please keep posting, Ill chose a best answer eventually. I Truly do have feeling for her and We both want to go out with each other just nobody really thinks that we are old enough. My parents could not give a ****, but.... Her parents won't let her do anything, I am so sorry for making you think that I am an asshole, If i cannot Go with her, than nobody else can take her spot, Sorry everyone.... And i should be saying sorry to myself and her for thinking that. Wow Please you guys are awesome keep the answers coming, I really hope I can go with her, I will talk to her tomarrow about this.
2007-09-21 14:42:28 · update #1
If the date is for Homecoming, why not ask her father to chaperone? Right, I mean take her and her dad to the dance. Be sure to ask his permission to take her first! Good luck!♥
2007-09-21 14:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Home coming is a special occasion for everyone involved so I can understand the urgency in your piece.But I did not read anything about how you feel for her. If you care for her, how can you think only of your need .You are asking a minor to disobey her parents so you can have a date for homecoming.What happens after she gets home ?Since it does not appear as if you have any real emotions for her and you are only looking for a homecoming date,let her slip (to quote you) and find a new date. While you are both 16, her parents have decided that she is too young to date. Do not get this innocent girl in enough trouble to drown a fish.
2007-09-21 14:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know exactly how you feel. i'm a girl but a guy asked me out about 2 years ago when i was 13 and my parents didn't approve, my "boyfriend to be" let it slip, but when we went to a dance we went separetly then just met up there, it might seem lame for homecoming, but i say you just tell her to tell her parents it's just for the dance, show up at her house, and talk to the parents, they might think her dating you isn't such a bad idea, opening up to the parents is key, as my boyfriend now tells me :)
hope i helped and have fun at homecoming!
2007-09-21 14:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out if her parents will let her go to homecoming and then if she says yes then ask her to be ur date. you probably won't be able to pick her up but u guys can meet at the homecoming. do it that way what her parent don't know won't get her in trouble
2007-09-21 14:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by playinthegame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the proper thing to do is to go to her parent house and ask if u can take their daughter to the dance and they can come pick her up after, just make sure u get the kiss in before they do,,,,,,,,it will show them that u are irresponisble and that ur sincere
2007-09-21 14:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Xiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with her as friends for now, and let her parents see how great of a guy you are (not that i know you but yeah). then, when her parents are ready, u can start dating...
2007-09-21 14:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the girl and ask her permission to go to her Dad. If you really wanna go with her you'll approach him.
2007-09-21 14:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk 2 her parents
2007-09-21 14:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and ask someone else if you care about her.
2007-09-21 14:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by JG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋