2007-09-21 13:51:05 · 29 answers · asked by Queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No thats a good thing!
2007-09-21 13:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by BURT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!! When I was a senior in high school, I was a virgin. It's not that I had never had the opportunity to have sex, but I had always thought that I should wait to do it with someone I loved. But by the end of the school year, I only had one other friend who was a virgin. I was scared of going off to college and being the only virgin, and having people think I was weird, so I had sex with someone who I cared nothing for. I felt so stupid afterwards. In college, I found someone who I really cared about, and finally began feeling good about sex. But it turns out, my other friend who went off to school a virgin had met a whole bunch of girls who were virgins, too. And not like girls that you can tell right when you look at them that they're virgins, but REALLY pretty, normal girls. My friend and I both wished we had known that it wasn't "abnormal" to be a virgin in college. So DON'T think it is!! Don't feel pressure to have sex just to fit in. There are alot more virgins out there that probably were afraid to admit it in high school, but that are comfortable and proud of it now that they are in college. Trust me on this one. You'll feel better about yourself if you wait until it really means something to you.
2007-09-21 14:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very good thing you are a virgin and in college. DON'T EVER GIVE IT UP for any man. Give it up for someone you're going to spend the rest of your life with!!!!
I'm sick with the men's responses of "Hell no." " Must have sex soon." etc. Trust me. If you do lose your virginity before you meet the right man, you will feel disappointed or depressed inside that you may not be good enough for Mr. Right.
Just keep it, and wait until he comes along. Once he does, you'll know that you've kept it thus far and it is doing you good!
I am a virgin of 25 years so it's not a problem. I am looking for Mrs. Right, but I know that I can't lose it. Otherwise, I am just a DOG like the rest of the men who keep asking for sex. What pathetic dogs.
If you need a real man, a real man is a man who would like to lose his virginity to the one girl who'd do the same likewise!
Keep it up! Stay strong and dodge the dogs. You know who they are... and look out for the smooth talkers.
2007-09-21 14:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by IFBaptist_KJV1611 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm in grade 12 and have never had a boyfriend, so by the time I'm in University, I'm gonna be the same way. I definitely don't think there's anything wrong with it. You just respect yourself enough not to sleep with some random guy. And don't go out looking to lose your virginity either. You should wait for the right person because that'll make it special. If you ask me, teenagers are having sex way too early anyways.
2007-09-21 13:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You are still young. Don't have sex because pop culture or society is telling you that you should be sexually active by now. Have sex when you are ready. There are more virgins in your college than most people think.
Of course if you are in your 30's and still a virgin, then you might have a slight problem.
2007-09-21 13:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be a "bad" thing? Does good = bad now?
No. It's bad. It's bad to not bring up a child from an unwanted pregnancy. It's bad not to have an STD. It's bad to not have a string of bad relationships meant only for physical pleasure and the person doesn't care whether you live or die....just as long as you "put out".
2007-09-21 13:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't! In fact, it's very good that you still are, you just haven't found the right guy. It's better to stay a virgin until you've met "the one" than to just give up something so precious to Any old guy...know what I mean?
It will be worth the wait, it will be so special to be intimate with the one you love with all your heart, giving your virginity to him.
2007-09-21 13:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, Keep your virginity has long as you can. You never get it back. there is nothing wrong with it. You go on that whole virginity thing.
2007-09-21 13:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by shylovemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My A**
I'm staying a virgin till I'm married.
Most guys like their wives a virgin.
2007-09-21 13:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a bad thing, it is actually a good thing. That means you have a huge amount of respect for yourself and you're not only pleasing yourself, but you're pleasing your parents, friends, and most importantly God.
2007-09-22 04:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Allison♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all girl, infact its gonna help you to becoming the best woman that you want to be. Come on, do'nt be decieved, keep your head up because you are a lady of substance. Hold on to your dignity and GOD wll see you through.
2007-09-21 14:13:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋