2007-09-21 11:22:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ok listen dude. you obviously don't agree with this "no sex till marriage" idea so you try to evade it. you have understand that religion is not meant to do actions and then receive belief and salvation from it. thats called corruption. its vice versa. no matter what religion it is. you have to have the belief and keep it up by doing actions and prayers. why will not having sex, donating money, and not cursing get you to heaven if you don't really have the main reason and belief in your heart. and trust me you know when you do, and you don't cause your asking questions like this. that doesn't mean that your evil. it just means you don't believe it. if God wanted us to be the same he would make it so. but there are so many different beliefs and views and every one of them thinks there right that, that action in itself should reassure that there is a god. 2 christians are never the same. they might do the same actions and say they have the same beliefs sure, but their point of view and frame of reference will always be different. so what ever religion belief or whatever makes you have an aha moment then do it. you have problems with your current religion. and this doesn't mean that your lazy and being devilish from it, cause again if you don't have the belief and are looking for ways to evade it. then it will never work for you. so do what you think is right. god gave you a conscience. use it and don't listen to others to simply follow the pack
2007-09-21 11:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking if you can play with sparks around open containers of gasoline, since lit matches are so dangerous.
Life is about more than sex. A loving marriage will always have opportunities for more intimacy when you haven't let sexual drive and passion be the leader.
Let love be the leader and passion will always follow. Love is defined in 1st Corinthians chapter 13 in the Holy Bible. You will notice that it does not describe sex there.
2007-09-21 11:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by TEK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a muslim, well in islam it is a one of the bigest sins to have any form of not appropriate (not professional) or lets say not respectable relation ship with a women before marraige. since that is considered playing and cheating on the women as she can get pregnant. and one example always given no one will like this happen to his mother , sister ant or other relatives so why like it happen to a girl who could be someones mother, sister , cousin and ... etc
be nice and a gentleman what ever your religion is ( islam, jewdism or chrisitanity) then it is a sin anything else then even if u kill someone it is not a sin these are the only true religions from the same creator
2007-09-21 11:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pet Expert 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. If you believe that sex before marriage is wrong it's because I'm assuming you are a Christian then any sexual contact or even impure thoughts about the person you're going to marry is wrong. You're not even supposed to kiss! Nowadays most Christians will consider kissing and like hand holding ok... but if you wanna go by "the Book" (no pun intended...haha ok it was...) then ya no touching!
I really do encourage you to wait for it all... I wish I would have!
2007-09-21 11:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
cant remember how sex before marriage is defined by the ancients but I think mutual fondling should be acceptable if it is indeed mutual, loving and respectful
2007-09-21 11:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by turkeyhug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what religion.
Christian's it is a sin only to have sex before marriage if i'm not mistaken.
Muslim's it's a sin to do anything beyond kiss and hold hands, masturbating sex and all other things are sins unless married and then it's only for reproduction not pleasure.
2007-09-21 11:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by ohhxkatie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's the point? Mutual fondling will just make you want to have sex anyway.
2007-09-21 11:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes,its a great sin...
sex before marriage creates a great damage on the society
1.a man marriages for sex...so this 'll not let him to get marry if he can do with any body
2.it may lead you in death(i hope it 'll never happen) like suffering from Aids
3.your face 'll turn in to a bad face like a creul person
2007-09-21 11:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by Rare girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask youself why would you want to be with a woman who is not going to be your wife. If you are sure she is going to be your wife and she is also sure, then when you ask her to marry you she will say yes. But after you have sex and then you ask her to marry you, then she may say no.
These days people are not very good at maturing, and that is why there are so many broken homes.
Good luck.
2007-09-21 11:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by David L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mutual fondling is no where near having sex.
No its not a sin [im atheist/agnostic but i know my sins and whats sinning]
The only way it could be a sin is if you penetrate with your penis, that is called sex which is considered a sin to you.
2007-09-21 11:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by picklemcnickel 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋