Have you ever been bullied by a girl?

Question

and when you try to stick up for yourself, you are the bad guy?, how has this affected your future relationships?

funny that you mentioned that cause when this girl escalated her attack, she would come up to me and say "I hate you" I would look puzzled try to walk away, until one day on the bus she spit at me, and I tackled her, and everybody tackled me
instead, like wtf is wrong with you

Answer 1

Well, this happened so early on in my development that I don't think it's affected my later relationships at all (at least, not as I am aware.) I was roughly 8 years old and new to the state and the neighborhood, as well. I stood out like a sore thumb because of the way I talked, so I was a frequent, convenient target for anyone wanting to have a little fun with the new kid. Day in and day out she would badger me with various taunts, and over time, as it became obvious to her that I wouldn't hit her back (because "boys don't hit girls") she escalated her attacks and began warming my head up at will. Everyday it was the same thing....I walk into the house telling my mother about the latest lump on my grape. She finally said, "I don't want you hitting girls but you're going to have to defend yourself somehow". Hell, that was no help....I'm 8 years old, what am I going to do with a philosophical conundrum? Well, one fateful day (I had long since lost count of how many had elapsed) when it was time for my daily beating at the bus stop, I just lost it and charged at her, tackling her onto her fat a s s ! I never did hit her, per se...I let her up, and stood by waiting for my afternoon thumping, but it never came. Remarkably, after that we grew to be reasonably close...helpful, since I had a mad crush on her sister.
Perhaps I spoke too soon....I've tackled many people over the years since then (and definitely more men than women), but none was as pleasing as that first one, and maybe in ways I've only just now realized, it has shaped my identity to the extent that I can appreciate the application of controlled, measured violence as opposed to full-on senseless types in effecting a positive outcome. (*Most people I've tackled since have been tackled in an official occupational capacity.)

Answer 2

If you've got a phsyco girl on your hands, it's not your fault. Us girls know how mean other girls can be, I don't think this bully will effect any relationship in your future, but you definately need to put your foot down, and show her just cuz she's a girl, doesn't mean you're going to take her crap. In my personal oppinion, if a girl wants to start something with a boy, she better be able to back her self up on her own.

Answer 3

U KNOW HONESTLY NOW A DAYS WOMEN AND GIRLS ARE THE WORST, U GUYS ARE GREAT!!!! P.S JUST BE YOURSELF AND DON'T TRY TO PROVE U R A MAN.

Answer 4

yes. and i married her and am still being bullied by her.