should i commit suicide....?

Question

there is no way out of an addiction from masturbation...orgasm..so living life doesnt seems worth anythin to me....plz help me find a way out of this addiction

Answer 1

Please do not commit suicide - it's not worth it. Masturbation is a perfectly natural act, and if it's enjoyable of course you want to keep doing it. It won't harm you in any way.

If you're spending time on it to the exclusion of other activities, then yes, try to find some other fun things to do, especially be around people. Talk to a therapist if the idea of it really bothers you. But by all means - do NOT feel guilty!

If you feel you're on the verge of harming yourself, please call a suicide hotline immediately. Or get yourself to the emergency room of a hospital.

Answer 2

Let me start by saying that in men and boys masturbation is sometimes one of those things that happen so to speak. As for the suicide talk remember the only person that is stopping the hurt is the one committing it. All those who care about you that you are leaving behind are just starting their pain. Some will go the rest of their lives carrying that pain. Some may not get over it and do the same thing. You have to ask is it worth taking everyone with you emotional in the aftermath or is it better to search out help. Sometimes masturbation is a healthy release so I have read. Suicide is not a solution it is just an end for you and a terrible beginning for others. Those you left behind may think they were the reason and believe me the guilt we carry is horrible.

Answer 3

Dude, as far as reasons to throw your life away go, that's pretty weak. Bone cancer sure. Heroin addiction maybe.

But we're supposed to enjoy orgasms. And if it's a religious thing, it God didn't want us to masturbate, our arms would have been shorter.

How many times a day are we talking anyways? Unless you can't stop long enough to eat regular meals, you don't even have a problem yet.

Answer 4

Why is everyone taking this guy seriously i think he is taking the piss as we say in Britain. Unless I'm wrong! But if masturbation was so bad i would have killed myself years ago as i do it twice a day, and that ain't no joke! Even master bated after having sex once, the girl thought i was weird. I think I'm normal and that's all that matters

Answer 5

i have been in simular situation before. i sat there thinking there is no way out. but then the next day came and i realized that what i was doing there is no return you cant go back once its done. i know you are frustrated and ask why me. some people have receptors they are born with that make them addicts no matter what he addiction is
please remeber its not your fault, there are alot of people out there just like you. there are alot of therepy talk help groups out there
just knowing someone else is going through what you are at the same time makes it easier to deal with. also other people that are going through it can help you handle your situation without making you feel bad for having the addiction as they say until you walk a mile in someone's shoes you cant understand what they are going though
like in your situation. i have an bulemic addiction that i cant get under control and its frustrating knowing that i have no control over it but and there are days i cant even do minute to minute i do second by second
and as the minutes tick by i think i am okay i made it this far. remeber no person is perfect we all make mistakes but when you fall to your addiction just try harder next time.
remember addictions are our brains are out of control its a chemical imbalance in the brain you didnt do this it just happened.
it is not your fault you cant stop. i am 30?
and have been fighting going to therapy until now, my problem is bigger than me and i needed someone else to help me. it is okay to ask for help i know its hard trust me.
just remember not everybody needs medication they just need a new perspective and someone else to take them outside the box if you will. sometimes we cant see what is right in front of us in the ways that could help. by being on yahoo and asking the quesiton i dont think you want to do this in the long run. i know you are hurting and it is real pain and you feel like you have no one to turn to but there are people that do care and want to see you get better. i dont even know you and feel your pain!. there is a reason i was on yahoo today i havent been on in awhile , so there is a reason for you to still be here!!!! there are councelors in the yellow pages if you cant afford them they can direct you to some support groups even just over the phone if that what you want and need just someone to talk to so you dont feel alone in this. i am not a doc just someone who saw your question that has to mean something
i know sometimes life sucks and it isnt fair
and we ask ourselves why should i care it doesnt seem like anybody else does but life is worth living dont give in to your thoughts i know how great the urge is to want it all just to go away. but tomorrow is a new day. write down on a piece of paper the good and the bad things. what i do is okay one good thing that happened is i am breathing
i not up in a hospital bed on a ventaltor.
one bad thing i wish i ahd more money
one good thing about me i can write poetry
one bad thing i yell to much , one good thing can choose what happens next.
i know sometime the hardest thing to write are the good things. also in the groups you dont have to say anything just being there to listen to others and how they cope might just help you. support talking groups arent like they are protrayed on tv. they are calmer. also just pick up the phone and talk to someone even the operator can direct you to a support group if you dont know where to start. please dont do this what you are wondering about in your question. call someone i hope this helps with whatever you decide but just know that is was fate that i found your question!

Answer 6

Hi there !
Its natural and a normal reaction...dont have to feel shy or depressed about it...
maybe you can cultivate other ways of hobbies like more music, reading etc etc...
dot worry..you will come out of it...
relaaxx...
best wishes too..

Answer 7

MOST people are addicted to masturbation! Why do you think the porn industry makes so much money?

Don't feel strange because you are a sinner!

According to the Bible EVERYONE is a sinner.

Romans 3:10
"As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:"

Romans 3:23
"For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;"

If you want forgiveness, all you have to do is ask.

1John 1:8-10 "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

If you want to go to heaven when you die, all you have to do is believe on Jesus Christ and you will be saved from hell.

John 3:36
"He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him."

Romans 4:4-7
"Now to him that worketh is the reward not reckoned of grace, but of debt.
But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness."

Ephesians 2:8-9
"For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
Not of works, lest any man should boast."

Acts 16:31
"And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house."

The only man to never sin is Jesus Christ.

Hebrews 4:15
"For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin."

Even the apostle Paul was bothered by his sin.

Romans 7:14-25
"For we know that the law is spiritual: but I am carnal, sold under sin.
For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I.
If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good.
Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin."

That is why Jesus Christ had to die for our sins.

1Corinthians 15:3-4
"For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:"

Answer 8

no! no matter what the situation is life is too sacred not only to you but the people who surround you, like family and friends. If you kill yourself it might depress someone close to you enough to kill themselves. I know you are not looking for that result.

Answer 9

seriously though if you only want to die is because of maturbation there is no point in dying! mastabatings good, and you've probably got loads of friends and stuff/w.e. Don't die cos you maturbate you silly thing mwahxxx

Answer 10

Materbation and orgasm = Good
Suicide= Bad....

keep enjoying yourself, there is nothing wrong with it.