I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. Recently his ex just had a baby and she name is after him. Of course the girl does not like me. He always wanted his first son to be named Ja'King. So the girl went behind his back and gave her baby my boyfrinds last name and name the baby Ja'King on top of that. She is doing it to get at me... Being messy. What should I do because I do not want to have to woop this ***** ***...
2007-09-21 03:55:58 · 33 answers · asked by lisababy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her own evil deeds will whip her so you don't have to worry. What goes around comes right back around. I hope that he's not still entertaining her because if he is then you need to let him know that he needs to check his ex and stop talking to her for the sake of the relationship. If the two of you marry and you have his son then you can name him Ja'King because it would be his biological son.
2007-09-21 04:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Survivor 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he the father of the child? If not you and your boyfriend totally erase her from your life. Do not answer her calls and dont engage in a conversation with her.
You say you have been with him for a year so im assuming the baby is not his, but why has she named the baby after him its a pretty mad thing to do if hes not the father. What does your boyfriend have to say about this behaviour after a year? Doesnt he feel hes being stalked a bit?
Or are they just still friends that share a history together and thats why shes named the baby this.
It could be completely innocent but I'd asked your boyfriend some firm questions. If hes even been with her once or encouraged her in anyway time to kick himto the curb.
Good Luck
2007-09-21 04:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by emma157 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know this?
Neither you or him should be accepting calls from her, let alone talking to her. However, if the kid is his, I'm sure he'll be receiving child-support papers very soon. If not, some states require the child to be named after one of the biological parents; therefore, if he is not the biological father, you may be able to have the last name changed.
I would suggest a DNA test to determine if he is the father and, that way, he can accept his responsibility or both of you can file a restraining order to keep her from contacting the two of you.
Whooping her *** will on land your *** in jail with a restraining order in your hand.
2007-09-21 04:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by old hippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry to your loss, and that i think of that it is a proper theory. in spite of if he replaced into an ex or no longer, he obviouslly meant adequate to you the place you will possibly even considder naming your infants after him. till the father needs the infants to be named after people he cares approximately, I dont see why he might have a difficulty with this thinking you're no longer presently in a romantic relationship. perhaps you could call one newborn and he can call the different. or you could p.c.. the middle call for one newborn and the 1st and he can p.c.. the others. Your having 2 so it delivers some recommendations! Congratulations by employing the way, i'm attempting to conceive, i might merely like to have twins!!
2016-10-09 14:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ja,King? What is that? Does that have any special meaning? What is up with all these weird names!?! Most of them just sound like words put in a blender! Is the baby his? If it isn't this ex has got a huge problem!! I don't blame you for getting upset. That is a real biatch to take the name away from your boyfriend. That was the name HE wanted for his first child. I would give this girl a serious *** whooping!!!
2007-09-21 04:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd whoop her anyway! No, just kidding. What does b/f say? There is no other reason the baby has his name? She doesn't claim it's his? Why would the baby have his last name? Boy, what a mess and I think your b/f has to answer all these questions and he has to put a stop to it with her. No woman is going to give her baby the last name unless he is the father. Doesn't make sense. If you are sure b/f is innocent, then by all means, both of you need to ignore the heck out of her and if friends are mutual, both need to refuse to discuss her antics with friends so she knows she has no affect on either of you. GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-21 04:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how you feel!!! My problem is different from your.. I was with this guy for about a year and half... so he cheated on me with this chick.. OK!!!! that was almost a year ago( 2 days after my B_DAY) i found out... Anyway, we got back together again. He did i again.. but this time was different,, We was both pregnant.... ( FUC* UP) RIGHT? well i lost the baby almost 3 month ago.. And now shes having hes baby... Now there going to live together, WHILE I'm trying to pick up the pieces!!! I don't know if this help you or not. But let IT GO!!!!
2007-09-21 04:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh HELL naw! Is that his baby?
If that ain't even his baby that ***** is psyched out! I can see if his ex-girlfriend was his baby-mama - - that's DRAMA we don't like but have to deal with.
But a ex-girlfriend that is still in the picture naming her kid after YO man!! Girl **** that **** you need to put a end to that friendship, because obviously there are still feelings involved on her end and UN HUH she got some hidden intentions going on!!
- I'd purposely **** with her mind, just to piss her back off, and tell her that you are pregnant with HIS baby and that you guys are going to still use that name for YOUR kid too!! :)
2007-09-21 04:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by mentalchallenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you two thing it is hard to give a baby a mans last man with out the man information and his signature. I also dont want to be the one to tell you but if the baby has his name and he is on the birth certificate he is liable for the baby. I just dealt with the same thing I give my baby my husband last name and they will not give my support for my baby from his dad cause they say my husband is liable if his name is on the paper work. The only way out of it is he will have to get a lawyer and fight it he don't want to but that the only way out of it. Good luck but it sounds funny to me
2007-09-21 04:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by apple m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this, although she ended up not naming the baby after him, she just thought it could be his. She had her dates all wrong and it wasn't his! But in the end I just had to be the bigger person. I despised her for the longest time. But I just had to come to terms that he was with me now and not her. He loves me and not her. If he didn't love you and want to be with you, He wouldn't. And in the end, If you feel you need to do some @$$ kickn- Just make sure the kids aren't present.
2007-09-21 04:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Grants a tractor luvr! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋