I'm a freshman in the univercity.uh....so,I'm in love with a new classmates. But i don't think she feels the same. How can i change that.?
Everyday,i drop a short letter to her by the cellphone,but it seems that she wouldn't do care of me.so,what should i do,may be just have a little faith?
How can i change that
2007-09-21 03:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by HDserFDXfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing would be is to stop sweating her and try a new approach. Just try being her friend at this time and nothin more. It will allow her to really get to know you and who knows at sum point she may feel the same way you feel about her later on down the road. If you are that in love with her then you have to take it easy and follow her lead. Some woman don't enjoy being sweated. The letters are cute but you must stop flooding her with them everyday. Good Luck
2007-09-21 03:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you never talk to her face to face. That might be the problem. And that means that your are in "lust" not love. So relax and just have some casual conversations. Go get a coke between classes and chat face to fact. At least ask. If she does not respond, move on.
2007-09-21 10:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have a bf she wants to keep, after all, you claim to be in love just by sight? If she does not return your letters, she is saying she does not want a romantic relationship with you. You cant make someone love you and if you start to appear "strange", you definitely are out. If she doesnt answer, back out.
2007-09-21 10:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if she did not reply u. Then y waste ur time hunting for that girl. There is saying" There is still many fishes in the water". SO i suggest u to change ur outlook and find a better girl. If all this fails. Pray.
2007-09-21 10:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Try to get to know her
2. Get yourself noticed
3. Always try to be there to help her
4. Tell her if she ever needs help you are aorund the corner
5. After like a month or so tell her that you love her alot and had never felt like thise before and you really mean it.
Good Luck
2007-09-21 10:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by ][)ee\/\/ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend first, and remember it takes 2 to make a friendship!
2007-09-21 10:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should just be her friend first the kinds that flirts alot then right in frount of her flirt with other girls if she gets jelouse then she likes you are feels something 4 you if not then move on but become really good friends with her first
2007-09-21 10:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by jrmint92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be friendly.
don't be too eager because it might put her off.
my boyfriend was really eager when i first met him and it hought he was desperate and then he backed off a little and i realised how much i liked him.
good luck!
2007-09-21 10:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ey get to know her 1st mon you cant ust fall in love instintly it takes time for that to happen...why not ask her ona dat or ask her to have lunch with you
2007-09-21 10:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant change any one's thinking, take a chance by asking her but if she would not interested then you will loose her forever
2007-09-21 10:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Vikram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋