I have a chance to date two women at the same
time. Should I do it? They don't know each other
and there are things I like about both of them. Should I tell them each about the other or should
I sneak and do it?
2007-09-21 03:38:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's fine to date more than one person, as long as all parties involved know. Honesty is the best policy. and then if you end up liking one more than the other you can have a discussion about whether you want to date each other exclusively
2007-09-21 03:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOooooooooooooooooooooooo. Really that is all that should be said.. But Ill explain. If it works out with one of them she is bound to find out someday. Plus if you do this you are totally ignoring the fact that women USUALLY do find out way before you are ready for them to. Women are on the look out for players now-a-days believe me!! OK.. so you like both of them thats fine.. who were you with first? Are you dating her only or does she know that you have an open relationship where you AND her both can date other people? If you said to her that she was the only one you wanted to see you would be betraying her and her trust in you by dating some other chick. She will not understand. If you are really serious about this other girl and you think she is Worth it, then you should tell your Gf now whats up and be honest. A woman would Rather her man be honest with her and say that he is not sure if they should only date eachother right now than just find out he went and Cheated. Once you cheat, most times that is it the woman will END it because she cannot trust you. Im thinking you dont want that to happen? Plus if the 2nd woman finds out about how you had someone else and didnt tell the 1st one about her she will be upset too! She wont want to date a cheater either. You going and sneaking is a bad idea... you need to be honest. They may not know eachother but they could sooner or later trust me. My bf cheated once with another girl because he wanted to see if she was something, turned out he wasnt interested in her after all and when he came back to me I already had found out and she lived 200 miles away.. and I still found out. So dont underestimate and think neither of them will know.. Geez just be honest. If you are ever going to find Love you need first to find trust and honesty.
I hope you have luck with telling the 1st one about your
real feelings. Women dont want to go around thinking they are in the perfect relationship when obviously the guy is not thinking the same thing. If you think the 1st one is not enough and the other may have things that are better or a personality better for you ~ be honest or you could lose them both.
I can't believe I forgot this part..................
If you plan on having sex when you are dating
a bunch of different women and none of them are
your exclusive?? PLEASE dont catch STD's and start
passing them around and No condoms dont protect
against a lot of STD's. Hpv can be caught even with a
condom and other stds too. Just be careful because its
a little selfish to date around and not stay getting tested.
2007-09-21 03:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Miz Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't live a lie, first of all.
If you want to play the field, and date more than one person, you can date as many as you like -- letting them know that you are dating other people, too and not ready for a committment right now.
that is being honest, and also, gives them a choice about whether to date you or not.
plus you will have an opportunity to get to know them both.
it's not a crime to date more than one person... i used to do it all the time, and was non-committal. i also met a lot of people during this time of my life, and had a good time.
NO do not discuss anyone else you are dating. When you go out on a date, your past girlfriends and other people you date is not an appropriate topic of conversation.
take car.e
2007-09-21 03:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with dating more than one person at a time, as long as it is established that you both are not in an exclusive relationship. Dating is the way to decide upon one's future mate.
2007-09-21 03:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to wind up alone and old, do this "date two women at the same time" thing. They will find out about each other and you will be left alone with a posting on Dontdatehimgirl.com.
2007-09-21 03:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
for some reason (duh) girls find cheaters repulsive and liers again duh so unless you want to be known as the cheater be aware you can do wat you want but its really bad to do that you could really hurt someone so please i beg you dont do it
I walk these dark halls
The empty walls of my mind echo
The pain of this endeavor calls
Off the walls it echoes... echo
Your love spoke to me
Of a distant, far-off happiness
Afraid of pain, still let it be
Pushed aside the heartache and loneliness
I fell in love with you
After I knew it was over
You fell in love too
With another lover
And I knew it was over
Moaning in your sleep
Her name, the other lover
Oh, the pain her name will reap
And I knew you were in deep
With your other lover
I walk these dark streets
My heart an endless, bleeding abyss
The memories good never beats
How your cheating brought me sadness
Your love called to me
And lust overclouded my mind, hazing
And after your lies came to be
They burned me to the core, blazing
I fell in love with you
After I knew it was over
You fell in love too
With another lover
And I knew it was over
Moaning in your sleep
Her name, the other lover
Oh, the pain her name will reap
And I knew you were in deep
With your other lover
You said it was forever
I guess I should have known
Caught up in your selfish schemes
No one to blame but me
A doe shocked by light beams
Too stupid to even see
Your other lover
2007-09-21 03:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2? That's nothing!
How do you know what flavor ice cream is your favorite if you havn't tried them all?
Date them both. Don't tell them. Finito - the ones not worth dating will fade away and you'll be left with the best woman.
2007-09-21 03:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by stupidhead 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Date as many people as you like, as long as all you are dating know they aren't the only one. They don't have to know now many or who the other people are, just that you are not exclusive with any particular person.
Treat people as you'd want to be treated...would you want some chick to be dating other guys, but allowing you to think you were the only one? Not kewl, huh?
2007-09-21 03:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I agree with Babeheart.
Do what you want but be honest about it.
And if a time comes that you choose one woman over another, be honest then too - don't just stop calling.
2007-09-21 03:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by MARY N 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it.. you could end up alone if you do! If they find out they will both be hurt and might leave you simultaneously.
2007-09-21 03:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by don't be a hater 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋