We think dad has cancer, but he wont tell us anything.
He said he has a tumour and that he is due to have operation, and thats it. he wont tell us anything else.
He wont tell mum anything either part from the tumour and the operation.
we are not sure where the tumour is etc.
he is 70 years old
am really really upset. he wont tell us anything
am scared we'll lose him
we dont want to lose him
2007-09-20 22:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Rosy 4 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
He will tell you when he is ready,my dad did the same thing.I dont think it really sinks in at first,but when it does he will talk.Good Luck and I hope your father,s surgery is a success.
2007-09-20 22:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is having a hard time talking about it because he is scared also. Go with your dad when he sees the doctor or at the time of the surgery and you may get more information. If he has cancer, hopefully it is early enough to get some treatment. Most people don't die immediately from cancer. And, treatment can allow them to live a long time.
2007-09-21 01:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will tell you when he is ready. I waited until I knew all of the facts bfore I told family members.
2007-09-21 01:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to his doctor and tell him that you are really worried about your father. All the best.
2007-09-21 00:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is that where is this tumors is it inside neke or anywhere?
My dad also had cancer bcoz of that im asking u, reply me.......
2007-09-21 01:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there, dont lose hope... think positive.. and pray because prayer has power...
2007-09-20 22:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Conservative 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋