My boyfriend and I haveonly been together for a month. We met online...We talked for 2 weeks before I would meet him. When I did meet him it went great....The next day I had major surgery and he was at the hospital all 3 days with my parents....then when I got home he came every day but the nights that he worked. Then a week after being around one another he told me that he wanted to just be with me and I agreed because I really like him...Two days after that I met his family, which everything went great. He has been married and the divorce was finalized two years ago. Ok the main point the other night he told his best friend somthing about us, thenwouldnttell me....so last night he told me " Somtimes im at a loss because your different than any girl that I have ever beenwith in a good way. I'm used to girls acting and reacting in certain ways and you dont d othat.Its great because your the coolest and most understanding girl thatI have ever been with." How should I take it?
2007-09-20 21:47:47 · 5 answers · asked by MeMe07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure if I should tell him how I feel, I have been holding my feelings back because I didnt want to scare him! Also im always use to getting hurt in relationships.
2007-09-20 21:49:06 · update #1
We did just hit the one month mark 2 weeks ago, and we both said to one another it feels like it has been so much longer that that!Then we were like hmm is that a good thing or a bad thing? Both of our families have said the same thing though, just saying that it seems like we have been together alot longer !
2007-09-20 21:54:05 · update #2
am happy to hear that you met someone you really like and he likes you back just the same or more..Love is a good thing when you are on the same page with someone..
sweety it is understandable to be scared, in my opinion he has outwayed himself to prove that you are the best thing in his life at this moment and that in its own is a gift..live for now and what you see it s been tough for the both of you just be happy for now..let him know you have nothing to lose
2007-09-20 22:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy for you but I want to tell you to not get involved too quickly. It can ruin the relationship and you may get hurt very badly if that happens. I wish you luck but please take it slowly
2007-09-20 22:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by S S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how should u take it?! take it in our stride and show him that you appreciate that he feels this way about you. If he's being truthful, then tell him how you feel. If you're as great as he says you are to him, he'll get it and he won't freak
2007-09-20 21:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by EyeOnTheHorizon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he is very taken with you --- dont stress dont add labels and just see where the relationship goes ---- best wishes
2007-09-20 21:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like he really cares about you. be happy
2007-09-20 21:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋