Am in a relationship with this guy who says he needs me but i dont see it in him, i have tried to stick with him for 3years but honestly i feel am not his taste. He is justwith me hoping for something good to come...Am confused? We dont visit any of his friends or family together, but at least him he has visited my side???? What should i do?
2007-09-20 21:20:16 · 5 answers · asked by cnzuu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go in the way of your feelings. Guys keep saying so many things. But we can find out what he is really upto, only by experiencing it. You have already been with him for 3 years. That more than enough to know his true intentions. Since you feel he is not honest with you, please drive him and depression out.
With my experience, your heart definitely knowns the intentions of your man. Sont believe his words nor actions.
2007-09-20 21:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been in this relationship for three years now. You should have a pretty good idea where this is going. It's a little strange when he has not taken you to visit his friends and family. I think you should trust your instincts and move on.
2007-09-21 04:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't think he's waiting for something better to come along because he might look at other women...? because that's what guys do - and they all do it, no exceptions.
seems to me like you're pretty insecure. if he's with you for 3 years and he doesn't cheat on you, I think he does really love you and that he isn't waiting for some other woman to come along...
maybe you could suggest visiting them together? but don't push this though... maybe this is something that takes time with this guy. lots of it apparently, but still...
2007-09-21 04:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to insist that he starts including you in his lfe or tell him that you will leave him and do it. After 3 years you should be intermingled into his life already. he is not in love with you, or he would have done this before. Don't sit around a settle for less than you deserve. You are wasting your young years, and you can not get them back!!!
2007-09-21 04:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's with you because he wants to be with you.
2007-09-21 04:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋