I had a GF and the one who I loved(loving) most in the world probably.?

Question

I am a medical student. I had a GF and the one who I loved(loving) most in the world probably and she loved me a lot than me. Without having any proper reason she leaved me 2-3 months ago. Now I feel a deadly dark. Even I don't feel such attraction or attitude towards anyone.

Now I can't concentrate on anything and I don't like to move with others even. As you know as a med student, I've got much works to do. So I need to overcome this.

What should I do? please help me...

Answer 1

this truly concerns me that a medical student composed this question.

Answer 2

I do believe that you are not from the United States, your lack of English is showing, just thought I would point that out so others would not think you were lying.

A doctor can mend many many parts of the body, but so far, then can not mend a broken heart.

Love is a challenge and you can get hurt, but if you never tried you could be missing out on the person of your wildest dreams.

To quote one of Garth Brook's songs, "Sometimes God's greatest gifts are un-answered prayers".

What this means is you think you have to have this person or else and yet God does not think so because there is someone out there that is better for you.

Pick yourself up, dust off the pain and start saving lives!!!!!!

Answer 3

Your time is very limited because you are a med student. She may have felt neglected. If I were you, I would not get involved too deeply with anyone, until I had the time to devote to a relationship. A relationship can not be one sided. Both people have to contribute. You were probably not able to give enough time and effort into developing the relationship. Later you will have more time and will be a better bf to someone.

Answer 4

I think you should be way more concerned with improving your English if you're going to be a doctor. I'd run right the hell out of the room if you came in and started jabbering like that.
Here's my easy solution to your problem;
1) Fix your english
2) Complete medical school

Women love doctors so at that point the problem is solved because you will be getting more *** than a toilet seat and everyone will respect and like you, and more importantly be able to understand you.

Answer 5

dude, I've been there, its hard, its painful, it hurts & everyone will tell you more or less the same, you won't believe it, you'll think you can;t do it, you'll think it'll never heal then you'll find out later in time that it actually does.

This doesn't mean you stop loving them, it just means you can keep these emotions lower down inside you & in fact you learn to deal with it more, thats what happens, you learn the hard way simply because you have no other choice.

Don't worry about looking & dating others, your not ready to do that now thats why you don't have the interest at the moment, that will come in time, & you will know when you are ready to see other people, but don't make that an issue right now, concentrate on living your life & moving forward, think of your career, theirs usually a reason why things happen & chances are you'll look back on this in hindsight somewhere down the line & see all this, you'll have no idea now, but later you'll see why.

Concentrate on healing, concentrate on your career or other things you want to do in life, realise too that you are ok being single, and just totally be yourself, theirs no rush to get things back to normal & heal, this will happen all in good time.

Whenever you go through a hard time too, just take a deep breath and think about why it ended, and the reason it ended, because thats the point your at now, ya know, in the future you may get back together, you may not, who knows?, but one thisng is DON'T concentrate on that & hold on to that, move forward, don't initiate contact either at all, she knows where you are & she probably needs time to miss you too, your always there, you will never get out of this situation you are in now & that is 110% definite !

But for now, take thigns steady, do things when your ready to, yes, go out more, do more things to take your mind off things, you'll see in time that things are actually getting better & you will get through this.

Just think to yourself "Ya know what I'm gonna be ok" ... because you will be.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Forget about her! She might b playing with your feelings...start another relationship...there are so many girla out there who r better than her...consider me...i m young but i m sexy enough for your sexual needs,baby...mmuahh

Answer 7

I suspect you took her for granted and realized it only when she wasn't there anymore.

Accept that there's nothing you can do now.

...well you can try eating, surfing for porn, playing cards..

Good luck!