ok so i have liked this guy for a long time and i think i am just gonna go tell him finally. i have never made out before and need tips before tomorrow!!! PLEASE!!!
2007-09-20 19:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by blondie9018 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, you could tell him. Don't say something like, "I LOVE YOU!" It might freak him out. Start out with something a little easier to swallow, like, "I've known you for a while now, and I would like to be more than just your friend, if you would let me." If that creates an awkward situation, just keep your cool and try to turn the conversation away to something else, or you can reassure him, "If you don't feel the same way, I understand. Nothing has to change in our friendship. I just wanted to let you know how I feel."
About making out, I can't really help you with that, but just remember to take it slow at the beginning. The rest should follow naturally by instinct, but remember not to let it go beyond your control or your comfort. =) Good luck, get cho' man!
2007-09-20 19:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Chocolate_on_the_Moon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow. if he leans forward and it seems like hes gonna kiss you meet him the rest of the way. if hes kissed before hell lead. its not really that difficult. tilt ur head to one side and stuff. just kiss and there will prolly be tongue just let him explore and u can explore to. its not really that hard. my first time i had no idea what i was doing and nobody told me what to do either. i just let him lead and i just followed. the more u do it the more natural it becomes. hope i helped. u have any questions u can IM me at pigsfly89. good luck!
2007-09-21 02:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you tell him, if he is interested, he will take the lead. Just let it happen naturally. Don't rush into having sex, however. Take your time to find out how he will treat you before you get too involved.
2007-09-21 02:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
2007-09-21 02:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go tell him...but don't plan or rehearse anything...it will never go the way you plan it...or if it does it will seem awkward. Just be natural and relax. Just let him take the lead and then react to his actions.
2007-09-21 02:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you need tips on? Throwing away your virginity? Girl, grow up!! One night stands are not the answer.
2007-09-21 02:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
no sex
kissing fine
no sex
sincerely lonely
2007-09-21 02:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will happen. just go with the flow..lol. dont tighten up your lips and dont let them go limp...it will feel right when you are doing it...and DONT BITE....hard.
2007-09-21 02:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by solar_flight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt elaborate on it. Anyways, just tell him straight!!
2007-09-21 02:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by private "y" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋